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melissatotg

43 F Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–72
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a gurl. I'm Canadian, educated from a good family. I'm 100% Trans and in every way but one, a female. Seeking one special man, just one not two or three.

Seeking a man who appreciates and wants a Trans gurl. A man who is comfortable with who he is and secure in what he likes.

Does he need to be handsome? Rich? A stallion in bed? Perfect? No, he just needs to be capable of being kind and strong enough to lend me his shoulder for the days when its extra hard. I'll be greatful for the rest of my life, if I'm lucky enough to meet one guy who can do those two things.

What do bring to a man? Great attitude, love of sex, amazing amount of enjoyment in domestic duties (love all the "ings" ... Cooking, Cleaning, ..... one more thing, what is it? Seem to forget that one last thing that ending with "ing" .... Help me out ;) Keeping my guy happy is my thing baby!

No same sex marriage issues, all my papers say female :) Birth certificate, passport, drivers lic. .... It has all been corrected.

I will respond if you send a nice note. "Hey baby you're cute" is nice but not exactly something that falls within the guaranteed reply policy :)

Let's have some fun and say hi.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying being out on my bike, meeting new people and adventure seeking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Where do I start? I'm personable, make friends easily, creative, loyal, artistic ..... And I just love domestic activities.

After dinner or early in the morning I love making love ... I'm good at it :)

Being brave. I am quite sure everyone on this site looking for a meaningful connection would prefer it was easier, less risky emotionally or at least in some way a more human experience.

Now try to imagine being on this journey as me, someone who is constantly stared at, gets insults from total strangers and even assaulted in public just for just being me. I'm not looking for sympathy but being kind certianly can't be that hard. I will never understand how me being me hurts anyone.

In the meantime, I will just keep on trying. And a big kiss to those with kindness in their hearts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music? From R&R, Indie, 80's, Disco, Lounge, and if it's live even symphony or opera gets a green light.

As for books I'm working on reading all the classics, Dickens, Steinbeck, Hemmingway, Dostoyevsky, etc... reading Cannery Row currently.

Art. I love art and have travelled specifically just to see the works of Bernini after seeing one of his pieces at the Art Gallery of Ontario. So then it was off to Florance and other cities to see Bernini's works. The bust in Philadelphia is amazing.

Dancing. I love dancing and sadly most men find it annoying or some kind of weird activity, so I usually go dancing with over gurls. We dress up on our sexiest outfits, think seriously short skirts and extra tall heels and we dance hard! I love it and wish I could find someone who also enjoyed it but let's be realistic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, serious necking, the odd martini (every now and then), a nice dinner and my bicycle. Wait something is missing .... Oh I remember now, sex. Let's not forget that one :)

At least 3 of my favourite things require another person to enjoy. If it does not also include lots of physical contact; what would be the point?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it will be like, being held in the arms of someone who truly cares about me; I think I might melt into his arms.

Maybe learning how to dance, as they do in old movies.

Maybe dream a little about what it's like ....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either in bed early or out dancing or snuggling in for a fun night.

Its Friday night, the week had been exhausting and from a Wednesday point of view we were lucky to make it here in one piece. The last thing anyone wants is to go out, so I say "stay in and make it fun !"

I'll make dinner (your favourite thing), the cocktails will be ready, I'll be wearing something distracting and then I'm going to make you forget about everything; you may not have time to finish dinner ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
A nice message saying something wins me over. I'm also 100% OK with being called baby, sweetie ... Be creative :)

Please be reasonable and respectful, I'm not going to meet you unless we have chatted a bit.

If you take time to write more than 1 sentance and say what you want ; I will definitely write back.