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mellisonanta

22 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Carbondale, Colorado

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, German (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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I am geeky, eccentric, and compassionate.

My Self-Summary

my name is molly.

well, i'm a pretty goofy, hard-working, compassionate person. I don't think I could make it through the day without music, coffee or laughing. all essential. and reading probably. I joke around a lot. try not to take myself too serously.

I love to travel, usually by plane. but trains are nice as well. ooh and road trips. i'm quite fond of them recently.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm currently working as a barista. :]

because I love coffee. mostly.

other than that, i'm reading, playing video games (final fantasy series and kingdom hearts, as well as random assortments of random things) and writing a lot. a lot. taking walks. going out to the movies. just saving money and trying to have a good time.

I’m really good at

not making sense. :] it's actually quite fun. sometimes I do things just because they don't make sense. I like causing a ruckus. and I love confusing people. and then making it all make sense in the end. oh such fun I have.

and recognizing songs. I listen to a lot of music. and occasionally the radio, so i'm pretty well informed. and music-obsessed, you see.

understanding people. i'm pretty interested in psychology so i'm always trying to figure people out. their motives and intentions and whatever else related to those.

maintaining a calm, relaxed mood. usually it works to have music to assist with this. but I get by on my own. especially in stressful situations. I don't really freak out. I usually just walk away and cool off.

The first things people usually notice about me

is that I look at least 5 years younger than I am. which is okay, because when they speak to me they can tell i'm older. so it's all good. and that I smile a lot. :]

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books- mostly science fiction. like....the dune series (frank herbert). or the ender series (orson scott card). but I go into romance a little. as long as its not too....whatstheword...ooey gooey? I don't know. not straight romantic stuff. but maybe....bits of it here and there? hints? yeah.

movies-also science fiction (arn't you surprised?), but also action, horror, drama and comedy.

music-well. usually indie stuff. like indietronica or indie-rock or whatever. is usually good. and even better if there are pianos involved. lately i've been pretty into instrumental music (explosions in the sky, tycho..etc.) you can find out more on www.last.fm/user/mellisonanta

food-I love italian food. I eat it a lot. and mashed potatoes. i'm not all that picky, though.

The six things I could never do without

music. I love music. I may not play anything but music is a big part of my life. I even have two music tattoos!

happiness, laughter, love,

writing. I'm a writer at heart. to the point where it doesn't even matter what i'm writing so long as i'm doing so. even if it's bad. because that means there's room for improvement. and improving my writing is something I enjoy doing every day.

reading. a major bookworm, you should know. of pretty much anything I can get my hands on. online. hard cover. soft cover. magazine. I am a sponge. I love it.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what i'm going to write next, or read next. or music. or the future. sometimes. not that much. I am one (and prefer to be) who lives in the present. not dwelling on the past or the future that much. and wouldn't if I didn't need to occasionally. generally I don't because it's a vast uncertain chasm of the scary unknown. it seems as if there are just too many variables to plan things, sometimes. so I take things a day at a time.

and, of course, relationships. and all their weird amazing complexities.

On a typical Friday night I am

I don't really have any typical days. Generally, though, I think of friday night as my night in. alone, because it's nice sometimes. But I have been trying to maintain some kind of friday night dinner with my dad and his girlfriend because it's nice. sometimes :-P

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

eh. I'm not much of a private person. Things just tend to unravel slowly over a period of time. depending on trust and all that good stuff.

You should message me if

we have things in common. similar interests. preferably if we live near eachother. and please be able to carry an intelligent conversation. it's pretty important. and it makes me happy. like good grammar!