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mellowTOdude

25 / M / straight / Single

Thousand Oaks, California

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Ethnicity
Black, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am athletic, fun, and simple.

My Self-Summary

I am going to try my hardest to get up to a thousand words on here although I feel like it is going to be rather difficult. The upside on it, if i ever need to write about myself I have it all typed up on here (as two bird come colliding down as the stone still flies)

Well let me tell you a little bit about myself. I've been a so cal kid for most of my life. I kinda work like a mad man which doesn't lead to too much free time. The area is pretty mellow with some good hiking trails as well as the beach being fairly close as well. I also enjoy art and films, and have a fairly hard time putting down Thomson or Palahniuk books. I am kind of a live music kind of guy, and love to go find some great live jazz bars (which I still haven't found around the area). One of my biggest passions is soccer, played it for many of years and now have somewhat moved on to coaching young girls. Staying fit is something that I truly take pride in.

I feel like I am a cheap hooker when trying to describe myself on something like this. Its almost like that feeling of not trying to make yourself seem like you are better than everyone else, but at the same time you do want to show some great qualities that you do have. If i lived in my dream world, we work either 3 or 4 days a weeks so we could enjoy life a little bit more.

My ultimate goal in life is to become a high school counselor. My BA is in sociology with the concentration of counseling, which i feel has gone to absolute waste with these jobs that I have had. I am still confused why we live in a society where it is frowned upon if you do not go to college... I feel like all you learn there is how to cheat and play interesting games like three man, beer pong, or grenades. I guess i shouldn't really complain that much as school was paid which makes it nice to come out of college with more money than you went in with... apparently not a feat that most people come across when they just paid 60k for a piece of paper that you frame.

In terms of my musical preference, I really do enjoy all types of music. A few of my favorite bands, or artist are; Daft Punk, The Beatles, Zero 7, Bennie Bennasi, Stevie Ray, Citizens Cope, Gorillaz, Cronic Future, Breaking Benjamins, and the list could go on for days. If you can think of an artist that sounds unlike anything else please please please let me know. That would be greatly appreciated. I also like watching live music, like B.B King at the Canyon Club... honestly, I do not know why he was there but I thoroughly enjoyed myself.

I guess that would lead me to the next thing that I enjoy. There is nothing like gulping down a cold on on a hot day when you have nothing to worry about. My beer of choice would probably have to go in this order... first, X X amber, second, stella, third, bud light. I am also a whiskey drinker which for some odd reason just sounds amazing to me right now.

What I’m doing with my life

I am working like crazy and doing what I can to better our youth one kid at a time. Kinda wish there was more time in the day but it is what it is.

I’m really good at

Sleeping with my eyes closed, chewing with my mouth shut, breathing in and out of my nose and loving with my whole heart... pretty much the essentials of life right there, so I guess I'm really good at Life (not the board game).

The first things people usually notice about me

i would probably say my smile... I always have a smile on my face unless something really really confuses me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

anything Hunter S. Thompson, Chuck Palahniuk, or Kurt Vonnegut...

films is a tough one, with Donnie Darko, Garden State, Spun, Fear and Loathing, Fight Club, Boondock Saints, A Scanner Darkly, Matrix and maybe 300 topping my list as of right now

Anything live music i dig, really into classic rock, jazz, and some new rock, ska, and a little underground hip hop artist from Daft Punk, The Beatles, Zero 7, Bennie Bennasi, Stevie Ray, Citizens Cope, Gorillaz, Cronic Future, Breaking Benjamins, Led, Jimi, Ratatat, Pink Floyd, Ella, Nat King Cole, Carlos Santan, Sublime, Slightly Stoopid, Jay-Z ... tons of classic rock, i feel like if you don't like it you probably haven't heard enough of it

Love sushi, cajun, mexican, or anything deep fried (and the workouts that follow)

The six things I could never do without

Bed, Shower, Toothbrush, Soccer, Family, You?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I can do to change the world...

On a typical Friday night I am

Depends if im tired or not... if not, then there is no typical friday

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

kind of an open book... but i for some odd reason find glasses very sexy

You should message me if

you love to laugh and youre looking for someone to have a fun time with