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melodius_me

33 F San Lorenzo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aries
Education
Working on university
Job
Law
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm independent, grounded, and laid back. I love to laugh, and have a very healthy, hearty sense of humor. I spend a lot of time in San Francisco, as that's where I work, and quite a few of my friends live. My job is one that is pretty stressful, so I spend most of my free time relaxing. I like to go out every now and again, but the club scene isn't my thing anymore. I'm more of a casual bar/lounge kinda gal. I love music (HUGE hip-hop head.) I check out live shows whenever my schedule will allow for it. Outside Lands is coming up this weekend and I'm really excited.
I like to take drives, listen to music, sleep in, dance, read, watch movies... I am very much a child of the concrete...so while I love to take long walks, and sit by the water...I enjoy exploring the architecture and funky history of the city. I love to travel. Going to NOLA for the first time in a couple of months. SO excited!

I've recently, after 10 years, started working a schedule that allows me weekends off. My sister and I have taken to traveling The Bay searching for the best Sunday Brunch with the best Bloody Mary. Any suggestions?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Im enjoying it. Im on a journey that Im loving. I'm a hard worker, and I'm working on figuring out the perfect balance of work and play. I love to learn, and I'm looking to finish my studies, and really settle into what I'd like to do when I grow up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking shit. Haha. No, seriously. I'm pretty funny. I have a knack for quoting song lyrics that are relevant to the last words spoken. I enjoy baking, and crocheting.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'd have to say...my smile. I often get teased about the fact that I show pretty much every tooth in my mouth when I smile, but...it's a decent set of teeth so, I'm good with it.

It might be my septum piercing, though. I'm not too sure anymore.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:: Manchild in the Promised Land, Crime and Punishment, Native Son, She's Come Undone, Tales of the City Collection..Anything by Adam Mansbach, James Patterson, Richard Wright, James Baldwin..I'm an avid reader. There are far too many to list.

Movies:: Sigh. Same goes for the movies. BUT...Shawshank Redemption, Untamed Heart, Europa Europa, Malcolm X, City of God, Goodfellas, You've Got Mail, Meet The Parents, The Departed, Six Degrees of Separation, Love Jones, American History X...Are few amongst many.

Shows:: Dexter, The Wire, Homeland, Shameless, HIMYM, First 48, OITNB, The Good Wife. The History Channel and Animal Planet get a lot of air-play in my house also.

Food:: Anything Asian. Japanese (SUSHI!!) and Vietnamese are my absolute favorite, but I enjoy it all.

Music:: This is so hard. Music is my greatest joy, and I could sit and list forever. So. I love hip-hop. I love jazz. I love soul. I love R&B. I love classical. I love alternative. I enjoy classic rock. I can deal with some country. I feel like I slight artists that I love if I start to list them, and then leave someone out. So. This is a quick overview.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My iPod/iPhone
My Headphones
A hoodie
A book
My calculator watch
Journal (and pen)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A whoooooole lot of random things. I wouldn't even know where to begin. But, it makes for some very entertaining material, when I write it down. I enjoy writing, and it comes out in many different forms.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Praying for 11:00 to roll around so my weekend can begin!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I count the stairs when I go up/down them. All the time. It's weird. Perhaps It's because I'm a bit clumsy, and if I count them, I'm focusing, sure to take each one with care...so I don't fall and eat it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You love to laugh. You love music. You like to be goofy, and hang out... You like to do "stuff"...go to the movies, try new food, travel, check out live shows, museums. If you love to chill, and just be...I'd like to hear from you.