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melvinwang

25 / M / straight / Single

Cambridge, Massachusetts

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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Okay)

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I am nefarious, wayfaring, and ludicrous.

My Self-Summary

I like to wander, usually by running, sometimes by plane (yes that means long distance travel), sometimes just walking around the city.

I used to wander because I don't know what I want. I'm only a little bit clearer on that now, i can see myself doing just about anything. I basically just like doing stuff, I'm willing to try things once. I just want to learn as much as i can about everything, so that when I do figure it out, BAM. SHAZAM. whatever crazy comic book noise you want.

i am just not horribly picky about most things, but the important things are, well, important. i hate drama, i like simplicity and freedom. life just isn't that complicated.

What I’m doing with my life

biology, i think. but not research anymore, i just felt that i could do something a little more meta. like helping researchers and doctors and whatnot. i'm not the doctor/PhD type, that's for sure. but i am definitely some sort of scientist or engineer, so i code for a biology-related startup.

In my secret life i'd be a photographer. I am working on my own darkroom. I take a lot of pictures, and I even give away cameras occasionally, because I know I'm not the best photog evar, it's fun to see what other people come up with.

I’m really good at

computer science, strangely. but I like it less than I first thought. I see it as a tool for changing the world, it's a little more . . . spiritual than that?

running, not necessarily away from problems, possibly for exercise

soccer (yes football). i mostly run (incessantly) and stand in the right place. i have, uh, tactical awareness. that means the ball hits me in the face as i stand on the goal line, but hey, i saved a goal right?

i'm okay at guitar. i never realllllly learned. i just sat at home and tried to get better. i can sing while i play now, that took longer to learn than i'd like to admit.

The first things people usually notice about me

the disconnect between my size and appetite. that seems to confuse people as i devour twelve pounds of meat at midwest grill or twelve pounds of sushi at minado.

other than that, the glasses maybe? and that my name has a strange similarity to that of a chipmunk. (that should narrow it down to about three names, unless you count the female names. and no my first name is not actually Melvin, though Mel Torme's a pretty good singer)

i flip out a lot. i ask strange questions. i can't sit still.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

i liked bunnicula when i was young. you know, that book with the vampire rabbit. just though it'd be relevant now that halloween's approaching and all.

eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. manhattan. (gotta love that black and white stuff in an era of color.) umbrellas of cherbourg is pretty good too. i seem to have lost patience for a lot of movies, even though i have Netflix. I tend to watch in spurts, like three movies in one week, then nothing for a month.

as for music, i would like to say i am an indie rocker who likes moving back in time, as in listening to sunny day real estate. or velvet underground. i love indie-folk (iron and wine, that kind of stuff). but i have a soft spot for britpop.

i am probably not indie enough for some people. I APOLOGIZE doot doot

The six things I could never do without

mango pudding! coffee (sometimes)! tea! vodka! cameras! and City (Manchester City) 'til i die.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what to do next, sometimes without actually doing anything, which kind of annoys me. I'm silly, and then I will flip out and do something, kind of like a wind-up toy.

what my crappy crappy darkroom is missing. I have yet to print, only develop film.

also, whether to go somewhere next weekend. By somewhere, I mean on a plane.

whether to capitalize things. I seem to sometimes do it, sometimes not, like I feel like this should be some sort of IM conversation, but then I saw everyone else doing it, so peer pressure and all that.

On a typical Friday night I am

out, somewhere, not necessarily with or without friends. I like wandering around Boston but there's still so much to see even after years here. I will also sit at bars and watch people, also i feel you have to live life regardless of what is going on around you, and that's why I go places all the time.

OK, sometimes I just go home, play guitar, and pass out in front of the Sox game. pfffffft

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

uhhhhh, I watch HGTV? Yes, the channel about the houses and the homes and such.

Okay, extra bonus answer, six years ago i had a beard, which was strange for an asian guy. but i'm glad i at least have the option of facial hair.

Okay, extra extra bonus answer, when you're not looking I'm looking at airfare on kayak, because I'm still wondering whether or not to go somewhere next weekend; that's what iphones are for.

You should message me if

. . . you like concerts of the indie type, whatever you believe that means. I have decided I need new pals to see concerts with. Pals. What a great word.

. . . you are even more random than me.

. . . if you are a Manchester City supporter. everyone loves man united. I do not. sorry. but it's okay if you do. sort of not really.

. . . if you can teach me to ride a bike. i'm serious, i can't do it. haven't done it since first grade.