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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 16
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm easy-going, in the sense of not getting uptight or bent out of shape about things easily, but certainly not complacent. I'd much rather talk things through than argue or be confrontational. If I have a point of view or feel a certain way, I'm not apt to bottle it up, pretty much an open book.

Speaking of open books, I do enjoy learning. I don't know why, but I tend to have a penchant for choosing books, movies and music that are a little more difficult. Probably because they are a bit more stimulating most of the time (unfortunately not always) I must confess that sometimes it can take me a while to get through some books, but a book that's worth reading is worth taking the time to enjoy. I do enjoy reading very much, mostly stuff that's a little unusual.

I have a good heart and just want to do the right thing. Yet, my sense of humor can be somewhat mischievous sometimes, and a good laugh or a harmless prank is always appreciated, either to give or receive. I am quite playful and like surprises. But I don't play games within the context of a relationship sense if that's where your mind just went. I'm totally honest and strait forward that way and hope for the same.

I am genuine, quirky, and inquisitive
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I appreciate that I have a job that can be rather challenging at times, albeit a bit stressful at others. It's good to feel challenged though. I also enjoy playing music; always puts an otherwise rough day into a better perspective. I tend to work hard at whatever I do but taking some time out for fun is always important.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and paying attention and being there when people need me.

Friends and family always enjoy my cooking.

Photography, playing music, drawing, painting, writing.

I tend to be a bit humble so this particular question is somewhat annoying though. It's just stuff I've been doing most of my life to simply enjoy life. I might have learned something here and there, one would hope.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, so I've been told....or that I tend to be somewhat quiet when I first meet someone, but I've only heard that after I've gotten to know someone. I surely don't remain quiet. Actually much less quiet than I used to be. I'm not timid and will just start talking to someone if I'm in the right mood. A simple walk through my neighborhood can take hours sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Usually not the latest bestseller.... Often older and off the beaten path somewhat.... Johnny Got His Gun by Dalton Trumbeau, Silence by John Cage, Kafka On The Shore by Haruki Murakami, and also anything by Samuel Beckett, Alfred Jarry, Philip K Dick, Gertrude Stein, David Ohle, Lewis Carroll, William Butler Yeats, J D Salinger, Albert Camus, Antonin Artaud, George Orwell, William S Burroughs, Federico Garcia Lorca....

Movies: Lost In Translation, Wings of Desire, Abre Los Ojos (the Spanish film that Vanilla Sky was based on), Holy Mountain, Motorcycle Diaries, Amelie, This Is Spinal Tap, Repo Man....

Music: eclectic.... Sure I had my punk rock childhood, but what does that have to do with Javanese court gamelan? I do have some some faves (and evolve and change constantly). They are Animal Collective, Flaming Lips, Stooges, Sun Ra, Lee Scratch Perry, Fela Kuti, The Fall, Sex Pistols (yeah still like them), Link Wray and overall, a strange mix of odd, obscure stuff that most people haven't heard of... I could go on and on, but that'd run the risk of being very boring.

Food: open to all kinds of food(not a fussy eater -- everything besides popcorn, cranberries and grapefruit, my only dislikes, but even those I will sometimes even get a craving for from time to time). I was asked once if I would try crickets. "If properly prepared" was my response. Japanese, Thai, Indian, Middle Eastern, Brazilian, etc, hate to define it so regionally ...with that, a M'waukeean so I appreciate a good fish fry once in a while too. Good food is one of the greatest pleasures in life, but just one of them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family (of course)
My cat
A comfortable place to live

...the essentials
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes I even think about what it is to be thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes just in mood for a movie. Something atypical is usually preferred though. I'm not generally into bars a whole lot, but I do very much enjoy live music
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The question is a contradiction in a sense because it's thus not private once stated, right? Nevertheless, I'm quite open. If you really do want to know, I will tell you, and then you can tell me yours too. Sounds fair.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are genuine in what you do and say. Most importantly, kind, compassionate and caring are vital. Seriously, I want a meaningful relationship that lasts. These are significant traits that truly matter and show you have a heart. Only then can we really fit.