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merc13

61 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:33pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Gosh! we are all so nice and we are all still searching. Where is the justice?
OK, here goes:
The thing is: the ride has been extraordinary, so far, but I'm thinking theres much more to do and a whole lot more that should be shared.
With that in mind, it's time to add to the skill set.
I am a curious person and have managed to learn quite a bit, some of it even useful.....have been told I am interesting, or at least can be.
I love being busy, as I have taken doing nothing to an art form. Now, I simply need to find the time. And does it really count if you are only doing it by yourself?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a professional in the Hospitality industry. I am pretty good at it too. Because of that, my schedule can be maddening. That does not preclude, however, my obligations to myself, which involve continuous search for personal improvement and growth.
Physical, mental and spiritual.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
What I do.
Being a friend.
Riding a horse.
Or a bike.
Playing tennis.
Making a sentence.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This question makes me squirm, so I'll take a deep breath and say something instantly regrettable like smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have way too many items in this category. Better to discover the ones in common rather than the ones that define. No?
Alright: Any William Trevor book, without a doubt. Les Enfants du Paradis for an "all revealing out in left field" kind of film.
Verdi, Lyle Lovett, Meow Meow, Mumford & Sons, Mavis Staples to really confuse you.
Here's the shocker: Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends.
Music.
The infernal computer
My life lessons
iPhone. (I am so shallow).
A Credit Card
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My place in the universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing my job.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Will be discussed after vetting.
You should message me if
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Any of this resonates for you and you find the potential for common ground.
Your profile is as accurate and as honest as mine.