Even though it seems like a trial at times
The path is full of twists, turns and mystery
One never knows what the lady has in store
And the ride is seldom dull
What goes out to sea comes back on the tide
when you least expect it
A happy treasure in a field of sand -LM
And, I mean every word of that!
And now, I’m just going to throw random facts, thoughts and quotes at you. Duck or catch, that’s up to you!
Chase the sun around the world
I want to look at life
In the available light -Neil Peart
--I am indeed , "bigger than a bread basket." I am however, much smaller than a linebacker, and much more lady-like!
--I'm attracted to honesty, humor and kindness and people who are comfortable with their uniqueness!
--I have a generous number of amazing friends, I can call, “close.”
--I see very few things as black or white. I see many things as shades of purple!
I am perplexed by finding out so many people I'd be interested in dating have had crushes on me, but are afraid to ask me out. I find it hard to believe I am that intimidating, but there it is. *sigh*
I own a specialty pet care business.
I also do personal organizing, interior design and tarot readings.
I'm a vocalist, an artist, a writer and occasionally, an actress.
I hand-craft soap and perfumes.
I love what I do and I'm really good at it!
--I only speak English and “Sailor,” fluently. Despite my frequent use of expletives, however, I could wash my mouth out with soap & clean up for tea with the queen (or your mom) in a pinch. I know what's appropriate.
---I am pretty much an open book, but some of the pages are meant to remain a mystery until I find the right reader.
--I may message you if I like your profile, even if I don’t think we are compatible, If you message me, sincerely, I will respond.
--I have 2 guitars, but don't know how to play them. (This is on my "to learn" list.)
--I have had a boyfriend and a girlfriend. (at the same time even)
--I've never been to New York City or Las Vegas!
--I want to visit ; Spain, Portugal, New Zealand, Greece, Egypt, Morocco, Turkey, Scotland, & Costa Rica.
Why I’m here:
--My friends nagged me into it.
--“New friends and activity partners.” Yeah. I like that description.
--I'd love to meet some compatible men for dating.
--I am open to just having some fun, but I want to get to know who I'm intimate with. I'm interested in seeing someone regularly if I like them.
--I'm not actively looking for the BIG relationship, but if the right one comes along I'm ready for commitment!
--I'd love to meet someone who will introduce me to new things and share some of the things I love.
--And yes, I have answered a lot of the questions about sex on OKC, but privately because they're none of your business until we start to get to know each other.
I like a lot of things! However; DISLIKE:
--People who make promises they can't /won't follow through on
--Narcissism & Arrogance
--Disrespect (this is not the same as irreverence)
--Judgmental attitudes; bigotry, cruelty, injustice, religious extremists and those who try to force their beliefs on others.
And, Dating Site DISLIKES:
--Messages with generic content, "hi" or some brief comment.
--ARE YOU INTO? (fill in age, ethnicity or fetish here) questions as an opener. YAWN
--Married (not separated) men asking me out.
--The questions on here! Oy! They always have either/or answers, especially when it comes to sexual compatibility. Yes, I occasionally like to have my hair pulled during "sexy times" but the question only asks me if I love it or hate it. I am kinda with Mae West about most things in life, "I'll try anything once, twice if I like it, three times to make sure." It all comes down to 1) chemistry) 2) Communication 3) Really knowing your partner 4) Trust!