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51 F East Meadow, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:43pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
A little extra
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am vibrant, sassy, sexy, mature, active, smart, funny, caring, passionate, genuine, dedicated, respectful, and honest, looking for a respectful man with similar attributes. An honorable man who wants to find a special lady for the long term: relationship, adventure, companionship, all of the above. A man who follows through and doesn't leave a lady hanging.

I love being outdoors, breathing in the fresh air and enjoying the sun, warmth and nature. I love exercising for my heart, soul, mind and body. I love learning, improving myself, learning from mistakes. We can always become better, smarter human beings. I love doing and relaxing after. I must be doing something right: many who turn 50 have high cholesterol, etc, I am perfect in my health!

Trust, integrity, honesty, fidelity, passion and fun are essential to me and to find in my romantic partner.

I want real, the whole package! A genuine man with substance, values, integrity. I want to develop a fun, intimate, carefree, intense, very special and long lasting bond; goal is life long! I want my perfect mate, partner, companion. A man who is open and honest...with none of the BS games too many play.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
* Laughing, smiling, as you can see, enjoying all, esp the little things, sunshine, fresh air, nature, life!
* Meeting some great guys, just not the right one yet.
* Spending time with my "kidz": dog and 2 cats
* Working, surprised I am enjoying my current job since it is technically not my field but, in my areas of expertise
* Exercising: walking on my own & with my dog, bicycling, gardening, yoga, balance ball, Pilates: keeps the body & mind happy
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Smiling!
* Finding the silver lining.
* Keeping my body and mind young and healthy.
* Listening, being a good friend, loyal and honest.
* Love and Passion
* Knowing what I want out of life and pursuing it.
* Learning: Helps us to grow, evolve.
* Bargain hunting: Started as a necessity, now it's fun and challenging!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, I am almost 5'11: no shoes!
My smile, hair, face, skin, youthful glow.
My sense of humor.
People can't believe I was born in 1963: I love that!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love visiting formal gardens, packing lunch and making a day out of the beauty and peace with my camera. Nature's eye candy is a treat to enjoy!

Food: Japanese, Chinese, Italian, Mexican, BBQ, a good steak on occasion. I do not like any seafood. I love berries. I am a chocoholic. I am allergic to milk. I'm picky about beer. I like a nice, non-sweet white Zinfandel, Merlot; some red wine can make me migraine.

Music: Soothes my soul...
I love rock and roll, no rap, no disco, no country, opera a bit too much, some classical and jazz is good. I mostly listen to 90s alternative/grunge bands and like many artists from 60s to now. I love trying "new to me" music. Tool is one of my favorite bands but don't take that wrong, I am not a goth girl, I just love great music! Some others: Alice in Chains, Rush, Elton John…

Movies: Comedies, romantic comedies, drama, some classics. A few Disney classics too. West Side Story. Though not a movie, I loved Les Miserables on Broadway.

Books: I like historic novels. I'm not an avid reader, I prefer activities with others. Reading is a great escape. I enjoy the Harry Potter series.

TV: I despise "reality" TV and Hollywood "news" shows. I DVR a bunch of dramas, old and new and some comedies, so I have shows to watch on my schedule.

Sports: I'm a NFL fan, not a fanatic. I watch the CFL when I'm in the mood for a game. I will watch tennis, world cup soccer, an occasional Yankee or basketball game.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* Chocolate, soy milk, music, laughter.
* Health, heart, youthfulness, spirit, faith/belief in myself.
* My "kidz": dog and 2 cats.
* Comfy casual clothes: I love jeans, sneakers, boots, tanks and tees, shorts, sundresses, skirts.
* AC in the summer, cozy blankets in the winter and cool summer and autumn nights
* Spending time outdoors, breathing fresh air, feeling the warm sunshine...peace!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* I try my best not to dwell on the negatives.
* Keeping myself healthy, vibrant and young naturally.
* Why guys my age think I'm a cougar.
* September already?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? I think only work is "typical". Home or out. Cooking, chores, catching up with friends, relaxing, walking, oh wait that's daily, playing with my dog and cats. Watching DVR'd shows. Shower, relax, sleep...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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We are secrets to each other, each one's life a novel no one else has read...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a great guy looking for a great girl! I am seeking my perfect mate, partner, companion, not a pen pal.

We chat, message, talk on the phone, yes talking is required, to find out if we'd like to explore meeting in person. Simple idea, complex process. Finding your mate is a process you need to invest time in and when it's right for both, no effort required!

I am looking for an honest, fun, romantic companion, partner. Life is so much more than sex, it's compatibility, companionship, compromise, sharing it all and, loving sharing it all with one special person. A smile coming to ones face when you see the other, get a call. Yes, I am searching for the one who develops into a lifelong relationship with me where you find, get and continue to find it all with, because we are growing closer together. I know it is possible, I will not settle for anything less than 200% from each of us! Don't you think we both deserve that?