I live outside the box, pushing the envelope squinting into the
light looking to recognize the future. I used to be willing to try
anything once, but after a few close calls, I've gotten a little
bit more selective. I know it is not about me most of the time, but
just once in a while I like to think that it is. I never know if I
am ahead of my time or a throwback to a time of sanity without the
possibility of error. Maybe I'll get it right anyway.
I am creative, insightful, and curious
What I’m doing with my life
Way too much work oriented but I do feel like I am making amazing
progress everyday. I am rational to a fault with a solid front
masking a soft core of feelings as deep as the thinking part is
complex. I was green when I came of age and the world is just now
making me think I just got there too soon for my own good.
I’m really good at
Writing is my unsuspected talent all along. It took me so long to
find out I had something to say. I knew I had an opinion about most
anything, the suprise was that I can put what you think into words
that catch your meaning perfectly.
I am also a talented hypnotist though it is more avocation than
anything commercial. I'm told my voice is easy to get lost in.
Truth be told, I'd rather hypnotize you than date you. It thrills
me to see someone effortlessly get their heart's desire with just
images and words making the miracle happen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I sure wish I knew. Most of the time I am suprised anyone notices
me at all. Of course, that is until I open my mouth and then they
appear to way overestimate my intelligence. It isn't like I am an
academic overachiever. I'm just interested in things most have
never thought about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I do about 3 books a week though just one when it is a long one. It
is mostly mystery, suspense, spys and thrillers. I like some action
movies but find it hard to commit a couple hours to a movie. Music
and food are alike, give me something exotic or offbeat.
The six things I could never do without
food, drink, sleep, epiphanies, a good book and dare I say it???
I spend a lot of time thinking about
fertile soil, renewable energy, green builing, organic gardening
and dare I say it? women
On a typical Friday night I am
throwing off the work week powering down and laying back
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not looking here to hookup with anyone. I am OK just the way
things are. That being said, I do enjoy browsing the incredible
diversity of women out there. I am facinated and curious. Frankly,
I enjoy women as friends as much or more than a lot of male
aquaintances I encounter.
I am open to a superbly special connection arising from
communication without expectations. Maybe that means "friends
first" , maybe it means that friends is the highest and most
important relationship. I surely don't want to sleep with any woman
I can't wait to talk to in the morning.
You should message me if
you really want to meet a man who holds effortless communication as
the highest form of intimacy and enjoyment. If you want to know
more about hypnosis, I'd be pleased to talk about it.