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messy_muse

25 F Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:06am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Student
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello, lovely okcupid-goers!

Let's see...I'm reasonably badass. I like sunshine, and crazy flavors of ice cream, and media with gratuitous violence. I'm into creative chaos, dice with too many sides, long books, craft beer, and getting lost on purpose. I also enjoy creating improbable back-stories for people taking public transit.

Disclaimer: I’m poly, and currently enjoy making googly eyes at not one but three lovely people. (See Trjegul and remir for details on two of them). So if I've got it all, what am I looking for? Friends. Lovers. Cohorts. Collaborators. How am I supposed to categorize you when I haven't even met you yet?

Secondary disclaimer: I’m not exactly what you would call looking for romance. If it does coalesce, I won’t necessarily smack it on the nose and send it off to bed without supper, but I have a lot going on right now. What I am actively seeking is people I like existing around. “Looking for friends” can be kind of a write off, but it shouldn’t be. And, coincidentally, there is no path inside my pants that circumvents being friends anyway.

Oh! I have a puppy named Quince and I'd be very interested in meeting friends with doggies that could be friend-doggies with my new pup.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, I coordinate security system installations.

It’s actually kind of cool – they’re essentially paying me to solve high liability Sudoku puzzles where instead of empty numbers I get to play with other people’s time and money.

Yay for being financially autonomous in my early twenties! That counts for something, right?

There's still a slight chance I'll scrap everything, listen to all those prophesies, and just be a goddamn superhero already.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Maybe you?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Accounts vary widely. Make one yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I read a lot. I tend to like existentialist philosophy, re-imagined fairy tales, non-linear story lines, transhumanism, and huge goopy amounts of symbol.
Bookage: -Shakespeare (in full on fangirl ways) -The Master and Margarita -China Mieville -The Children's Hospital by Chris Adrian -Tolkien -Vellum by Hal Duncan -Neil Gaiman -Ovid's Metamorphoses -The Satanic Verses by Salman Rushdie -Who Fears Death by Nnedi Okorafor -Deathless by Catherynne M. Valente -Dianna Wynne Jones -Angela Carter -The Magicians by Lev Grossman -Frankenstein -Wicked -Trickster Makes This World -Mr. Fox by Helen Oyeyemi -The Rook by Daniel O'Malley
Graphic Novels: -Akira -Ex Machina -Sandman -Watchmen -The Arrival -Scott Pilgrim
Poetry: -Neruda -Rumi

Movies: Just don't make me watch chick flicks and we're probably good to go. I also end up watching a fair bit of animation.
Examples: -Studio Ghibli (Princess Mononoke, Spirited Away) -Guillermo del Toro (Pan's Labyrinth, The Orphanage) -Hugo -The Lion King -I'm a Cyborg, But That's OK -The Beguiled -Inception -Wall-E -Wreck It Ralph

Shows: -Firefly -Carnivale -Buffy -Avatar: The Last Airbender -Mad Men -Community -Dexter -Deadwood -Higurashi no Naku Koro Ni -Sherlock -Arrested Development -Gravity Falls -Misfits -Pushing Daisies -Orange is the New Black -My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic

Music: I tend to go for complexity-per-second type songs, if that makes sense. I also think well layed bass lines are sexy as hell.
Examples: -Blitzen Trapper -Blue Roses -The Decemberists -The Dresden Dolls -Hybrid -Jesca Hoop -Kimbra -Massive Attack -Metric -My Brightest Diamond -Phantogram -The Gorillaz -Two Gallants -Warpaint -Wye Oak -The Yeah Yeah Yeahs

Games: -Glory to Rome -Flashpoint -Catan -Small World -Ticket to Ride -Scrabble -ALL THE BOARDGAMES REALLY, just introduce me to your favorite; -nWoD -Anima; -Disgaea -The World Ends With You -BlazBlue -Pokemon

Food: Uhh... macaroni and cheese or mashed potatoes. Sushi! Desserts, if that isn't a given. Indian, Italian, Mexican... Mangoes. Cinnamon buns--Cinnamon anything, really. Vanilla. Cayenne. Goat cheese. Chai spices. PUMPKINS. Little tiny tomatoes. Pistachios.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends and lovers, which is possibly corny but absolutely true
2. The smell of books, immersion in music
3. Hot beverages--Quality tea is absolutely essential, and I also love coffee
4. Sex (this isn't in order by the way)
5. Running keeps me sane....r.
6. The moment you realize you've bitten off more than you can chew, and the subsequent moment where you realize you don't care.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Aleatoricism--It's not a religion or anything in spite of the -cism. Look it up if you like pretty words.

Dreams. Souls of places. Games, philosophic and imagined. Cyborgs. Intrigue. Peace and ab-peace. Noise. Quiet spots. The past, the present. People, animals, and gods. Private mythologies. Masks behind faces. Doppelgangers. Jelly-Belly flavours. Bloody kisses. Heavens and hells, and all things in between.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Really I'm a mixed bag, and quite bad at having patterns. I could be out gaming, I could be doing the whole sexy dancing thing, or I could be perfectly happy staying home with a glass of tea and a good book.

Next Friday, I'm free.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was little, I had imaginary invisible horses.

Also, if I were an animal I would be a ringtail cat.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to and you aren't sure you should. =)

Note however that I'm not really looking for casual sex--That's why I didn't tick the box. If I like you and we have chemistry sex isn't off the table...It might even be on a table... Sexy friends=<3. But I'm not really into the whole one night stand thing. I like being at least friendly with my food. And I'm not exactly going hungry right now either.

I also like friends without ANY sexiness thrown into things! So you should message me if you're into that, too, you oddball kinky freak. ^^

You MUST be:
-Ok with polyamory (and if you have questions, please don’t hesitate to ask)
-Able to convey yourself well via text
-Willing to put up with my occasionally being too skittish to go out without taking it too personally

Also, if you are one of the following I might swoon:
-A sultry red-head or a big-eyed, innocent-seeming brunette
-In men my taste veers towards the less overtly masculine side of things, though there are exceptions to this and you’re welcome to try and prove you’re one of them… Good luck, soldier. XP
-A geek, aesthete, or anyone who gets really into what they love
-Someone who owns a puppy that can romp with me and my pup.
-An iconoclast. In image, in gender portrayal, or invisibly in mindset...If you subvert norms or expectations, that is hot.
-The kind of person who wears corsets or hats with little animal ears, or who smells good, or who will bring me tiny pieces of bitter chocolate to melt on my tongue.