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25 • Vancouver, British Columbia, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 14
- Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer, Sapiosexual
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Graduated from university
- Seeing Someone
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
Let's see...I'm reasonably badass. I'm into creative chaos, dice with too many sides, long books, craft beer, getting lost on purpose, and happen to be a world class medallist in kitten spooning. I also enjoy creating improbable back-stories for people taking public transit.
Disclaimer: I am poly. I currently have a ridiculously awesome boyfriend-person of roughly a year. I have the space in my life for new people for the first time in a while, but am also admittedly not really looking too hard to fill any specific niche. So what am I looking for? Friends. Lovers. Cohorts. Collaborators. How am I supposed to categorize you when I haven't even met you yet?
It’s actually pretty cool – they’re essentially paying me to solve extremely high liability resource puzzles, and I get to actually do some good, too.
There's still a slight chance I'll scrap everything, listen to all those prophesies, and just be a goddamn superhero already.
Bookage: -Shakespeare (in full on fangirl ways) -The Master and Margarita -China Mieville -The Children's Hospital by Chris Adrian -Tolkien -Vellum by Hal Duncan -Neil Gaiman -Ovid's Metamorphoses -The Satanic Verses by Salman Rushdie -Who Fears Death by Nnedi Okorafor -Deathless by Catherynne M. Valente -Dianna Wynne Jones -Angela Carter -The Magicians by Lev Grossman -Frankenstein -Wicked -Trickster Makes This World -Mr. Fox by Helen Oyeyemi -The Rook by Daniel O'Malley -The Temeraire series by Naomi Novik
Graphic Novels: -Akira -Ex Machina -Sandman -Watchmen -The Arrival -Scott Pilgrim
Poetry: -Neruda -Rumi
Movies: Just don't make me watch reality TV and we're prooobably good to go. I go in for a lot of animation.
Examples: -Studio Ghibli (Princess Mononoke, Spirited Away) -Guillermo del Toro (Pan's Labyrinth, The Orphanage) -Hugo -The Lion King -I'm a Cyborg, But That's OK -The Beguiled -Inception -Wall-E -Wreck It Ralph -Birdman
Shows: -Firefly -Carnivale -Buffy -Avatar: The Last Airbender -Mad Men -Community -Dexter -Deadwood -Higurashi no Naku Koro Ni -Sherlock -Arrested Development -Gravity Falls -Misfits -Pushing Daisies -Orange is the New Black -My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic -Dollhouse -Steven Universe
Music: I tend to go for complexity-per-second type songs, if that makes sense. I also think well layed bass lines are sexy as hell.
Examples: -Blitzen Trapper -Blue Roses -The Decemberists -The Dresden Dolls -Hybrid -Jesca Hoop -Kimbra -Massive Attack -Metric -My Brightest Diamond -Phantogram -The Gorillaz -Two Gallants -Warpaint -Wye Oak -The Yeah Yeah Yeahs
Games: -MTG -Glory to Rome -Flashpoint -Catan -Small World -Ticket to Ride -Scrabble -King of Tokyo -ALL THE BOARDGAMES REALLY, just introduce me to your favorite; -nWoD -Anima -Ironclaw; -Disgaea -The World Ends With You -BlazBlue -Pokemon
Food: Uhh... macaroni and cheese or mashed potatoes. Sushi! Desserts, if that isn't a given. Indian, Italian, Mexican... Mangoes. Cinnamon buns--Cinnamon anything, really. Vanilla. Cayenne. Goat cheese. Chai spices. PUMPKINS. Little tiny tomatoes. Pistachios.
2. Books. I'm going to lump my sketchpad into this catagory as well.
3. Hot beverages--Quality tea is absolutely essential, and I also love coffee
4. Sex (this isn't in order by the way)
5. My fuzzy babies Blackberry and Jam
6. The moment you realize you've bitten off slightly more than you can chew, and the subsequent moment where you realize you don't care
Dreams. Souls of places. Game theory. Cyborgs. Intrigues. Noise. Quiet spots. The past, the present. People, animals, and gods. Private mythologies. Masks behind faces. Doppelgangers. Jelly-Belly flavours. Bloody kisses. Heavens and hells, and things in between.
Next Friday, I'm free*.
*May not actually be free
My twitter account is @Messy_Muse. Go ahead, click! Be prepared though - It's mostly furry references, puns worse than the ones your dad makes, and cat pictures (so, basically it's entirely representative of its author).
Note however that I'm NOT looking for casual sex--That's why I didn't tick the box. If I like you and we have chemistry sex isn't off the table...It might even be on a table... Sexy friends=<3. But I'm not really into the whole one night stand thing. I like being at least friendly with my food.
I also like friends without ANY sexiness thrown into things! So you should message me if you're into that, too, you oddball kinky freak. ^^
You MUST be:
-Ok with polyamory (and if you have questions, please don’t hesitate to ask)
-Able to convey yourself well via text
-Willing to put up with my occasionally being too skittish to go out without taking it too personally (I have intermittent social anxiety which, unfortunately, sometimes makes itself a factor)
-Someone willing to mess around with preconfig relationship settings, and gender expectations if you happen to be male
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