At my 30's now I've been through many stages in my life, from the monogamous "man of the family" bull***p, to the rebellious "forever a bachelor" bull***t. Now I've found what has really set me free, spiritually and sexually. After years of frustration and wondering what was wrong with me and relationships I finally realised that the notion of ownership was putting me off. It is absurd to believe that you own a person and create rules and borders on what they can do, when they can do it and with who. That invisible leash on each other's neck is what makes people take the situation for granted, let go and stop caring. Being entirely free at all times keeps you on your toes. Keeps you realise every day how lucky you are that the person you love, still sticks with you and makes you work harder. And this way I enjoy my relationship with angelsleaze, one more person not on this site and any other lovely people I might meet here!
Oh! And to make this clear. The reason I am here and the reason I may contact you IS NOT because I'm looking for a threesome. I don't understand why I would automatically be labeled like that. I contact you because I'm interested in YOU! Getting to know you and just chatting, Geez!
Update August 2013
I just moved to London and I'm really excited and stressed about it. So many new things to do and explore. So many new people to do and explore (please get the joke :P). Trying to settle and get my life back on track, I wouldn't mind some new friends to go out with, have a few drinks and learn new stuff from.