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  • Ages 18-35
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Last online
Aug 3
5' 8" (1.73m)
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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Instead of typing out a self-summary, I'm going to copy-and-paste a poem I wrote awhile ago about what I think about 'cool'.

a poem:

Cool is…

It’s not a skinny jean
or a Techno beat

Nor a symmetrical face
or a North Face Fleece

It’s not a pocket full-of-cash
or a Wicker Park address

Nor is it a college kegger
or celebrity status

It’s not about who you know;
it’s about knowing you

It’s about:
‘to thine self, be true’

It’s not about following the herd;
rather, nurturing your inner-nerd.

It’s about empathy and kindness,
not thick-facade-cosmopolitan-coldness.

It’s not about the west vs. the east
-nor rural roads or city streets.

It’s about tearing down the walls all around town


turning the world upside-down.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in real estate, I also do some freelance writing and i fantasize about getting back into hard news.

I love coffee, gadgets, riding bikes, eating good food and having good conversation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking, taking photos, reading between-the-lines, understanding people
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look young for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: "Cat's Cradle" -Kurt Vonnegut

Movie: "Serial Mom" -John Waters

Music: 90s rock and hip hop, Minimal Techno, Cat Stevens

Food: BBQ chicken, Tiramisu
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
OLD: (I think the NY Times has gone downhill)

*The internet
*My friends and family
*My freedom
*The New York Times
*The alternative press
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future of this world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

Having dinner or drinks with friends or at home reading.

A few times a month I go out in Manhattan or Brooklyn. Sometimes I need more partners in crime to do this with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have all the answers.
You should message me if
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