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28 M Abidjan, Cote d'Ivoire

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Hungarian (Fluently), French (Okay), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Me: I'm half American, half Hungarian and I've just moved to Dakar via Paris and before that Berlin; I'm slowly turning into a bit of a vagabond without a real Heimat; I like cold weather because you get to wear sweaters; I am always losing my keys in my pocket; I'm not terribly artistic myself but when music touches me profoundly I tear up; I love unique flavors but am a mediocre cook myself; I like hosting get-togethers and facilitating people meeting each other; I love the smell of Scotch and wish I could buy it bottled as cologne; I like hip hop and salsa but my hip hop and salsa dancing skills leave a lot to be desired; I'm a slow reader, but I love to read nevertheless; I like browsing used bookstores and inevitably end up buying too many books (did I mention that I'm a slow reader?); except for the really bad stuff I believe in trying anything once; I saw my first opera when I was five; I like to read at a desk and to write on my bed; I will do anything for the people closest to me; I believe in networking and like connecting people; I sing out in the shower; I love abstraction and think modern dance is one of the most beautiful art forms (although I know next to nothing about it); I think most of my problems could be solved by meditating more; I like hole-in-the-wall restaurants the best, but I think everyone deserves a "gastronomique" experience from time to time; in a past life I was a psychotherapist; in a future life, I'm a jazz pianist; I think aesthetics are important, and don't think there is any contradiction between style and substance; I love driving a fast car but don't own a car out of principle; I'm very easy-going but also highly opinionated, and I don't find this contradictory.
What I’m doing with my life
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Alignment: Chaotic Good. Helping those in need and pummeling scumbags with aplomb. Saving the world a hundred people at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Voiding warranties. Including yours.

Solving problems, learning languages, impromptu jam sessions, noticing details, making things cohesive, understanding conflicting points of view, helping and learning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite literature: "The Book of Laughter and Forgetting", J.M. Coetzee, "Doctor Zhivago", "Angels in America", Jonathan Franzen, Kafka, various Hungarian poets (József Attila, Pilinszky János), various Anglophone poets (Elizabeth Bishop, Yeats, Paul Muldoon, Dan Chiasson).

Favorite nonfiction: the late Wittgenstein, Simone Weil, Banerjee and Duflo, Hardt and Negri, the Economist

Favorite music: An eclectic mix, certainly. Not "everything," mind you--but if the main ingredients include soul, experience and honesty then there's a good chance that I like it. Within that, I tend to have an especial spiritual and emotional connection with a number of classical composers (Bach, Vaughan Williams, Pärt, Beethoven), jazz artists (Thelonious Monk, Count Basie, Christian McBride), soul singers (Sharon Jones, Frank Ocean), and folk traditions (klezmer, old time/bluegrass, Irish, Balkan). I also love hip hop (MF Doom, Freddie Gibbs, Madlib).

Favorite movies: I don't watch so many movies, but when I do get around to it, I tend to go for these really visually impressive, aesthetically driven, "arty" films (Jim Jarmusch, Werner Herzog, Ingmar Bergman, Steve McQueen). I also liked the last James Bond movie.

Favorite Operas: Rodelinda, Il barbiere di Siviglia, Le nozze di Figaro, Der Ring des Nibelungen, Die Meistersinger, Elektra, Jenůfa, Doctor Atomic.

Favorite TV shows: The Wire, Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Parks and Recreation, Arrested Development.

Favorite musical instruments: mandolin, guitar, lute, Irish tin whistle.

Favorite musical instruments I don't play: sax, violin, kora, voice.

Favorite food: Vietnamese.

Favorite city: Prague.

Favorite season: fall.

Favorite boot: urban cowboy.

Favorite airplane refreshment: ginger ale.

Favorite primitive tool: atlatl.

Favorite book binding: cloth.

Favorite Jesus: Christ Superstar
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great things to read (and read about). Great people to love. Interesting problems to understand. A musical instrument to doodle around on. Cocktail glasses.
You should message me if
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- You're awesome and you think we can increase each other's awesomeness.
- You're a six-foot-tall model with a Ph.D. in theoretical physics and a killer sense of style.
- You're a fellow feminist.
- You're poly friendly.
- You're a fellow sapiosexual.