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metonymy3

26 / M / Straight / Single

Paris, France

His Details

Last Online
Today – 3:45pm
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Hungarian (Fluently), French (Okay), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Me: I'm half American, half Hungarian and I've just moved to Paris from Berlin; I'm slowly turning into a bit of a vagabond without a real Heimat; I like cold weather because you get to wear sweaters; I am always losing my keys in my pocket; I'm not terribly artistic myself but when music touches me profoundly I tear up; I love unique flavors but am a mediocre cook myself; I like hosting get-togethers and facilitating people meeting each other; I love the smell of Scotch and wish I could buy it bottled as cologne; I like hip hop and salsa but my hip hop and salsa dancing skills leave a lot to be desired; I'm a slow reader, but I love to read nevertheless; I like browsing used bookstores and inevitably end up buying too many books (did I mention that I'm a slow reader?); except for the really bad stuff I believe in trying anything once; I saw my first opera when I was five; I like to read at a desk and to write on my bed; I will do anything for the people closest to me; I believe in networking and like connecting people; I sing out in the shower; I love abstraction and think modern dance is one of the most beautiful art forms (although I know next to nothing about it); I think most of my problems could be solved by meditating more; I like hole-in-the-wall restaurants the best, but I think everyone deserves a "gastronomique" experience from time to time; in a past life I was a psychotherapist; in a future life, I'm a jazz pianist; I love driving a fast car but won't own a car as a matter of principle; I'm very easy-going but also highly opinionated, and I don't find this contradictory.
What I’m doing with my life
I moved to Paris in August '12 to start a master's degree. Trying to keep my mandolin fingers in shape. Figuring out how to meditate on a full-time schedule. Cooking up plans -- and Mexican food.
I’m really good at
Solving problems; listening; learning languages; impromptu jam sessions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite literature: "The Book of Laughter and Forgetting", J.M. Coetzee, "Doctor Zhivago", "Angels in America", Jonathan Franzen, Kafka, various Hungarian poets (József Attila, Pilinszky János), various English-language poets (Elizabeth Bishop, Yeats, Paul Muldoon, Dan Chiasson).

Favorite nonfiction: the late Wittgenstein, Simone Weil, Charles Taylor, Tony Judt, Louis Menand, "Why Nations Fail", Banerjee and Duflo, Hardt and Negri, the Economist

Favorite music: An eclectic mix, certainly. Not "everything," mind you--but if the main ingredients include soul, experience and honesty then there's a good chance that I like it. Within that, I tend to have an especial spiritual and emotional connection with a number of classical composers (Bach, Vaughan Williams, Pärt, Beethoven), jazz artists (Thelonious Monk, Count Basie, Christian McBride), and folk traditions (klezmer, old time/bluegrass, Irish). I also love hip hop (MF Doom, Freddie Gibbs, Madlib).

Favorite movies: I don't watch so many movies, but when I do get around to it, I tend to go for these really visually impressive, aesthetically driven, "arty" films (Jim Jarmusch, Werner Herzog, Ingmar Bergman, Steve McQueen). I also liked the last James Bond movie.

Favorite Operas: the Ring cycle, The Marriage of Figaro, The Barber of Seville, Rigoletto.

Favorite TV shows: The Wire, Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Parks and Recreation.

Favorite musical instruments: mandolin, guitar, lute, pennywhistle.

Favorite musical instruments I don't play: sax, violin, cora, voice.

Favorite food: Vietnamese.

Favorite city: Prague.

Favorite season: fall.

Favorite boot: urban cowboy.

Favorite airplane refreshment: ginger ale.

Favorite primitive tool: atlatl.

Favorite book binding: cloth.

Favorite Jesus: Christ Superstar
The six things I could never do without
Great things to read (and read about). Great people to love. Interesting problems to understand. A musical instrument to doodle around on. Cocktail glasses.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're awesome and you think we can increase each other's awesomeness.