One lesson I'm learning right now is that focusing on dating seems to be an exhausting effort that, while yielding some fun times with some interesting people, ultimately is draining. I have a bunch of other things I've wanted to do this summer that got put on hold to go to the next big lesbian party, which always turned out to be dancing in a dark room to music that hasn't changed since the mid nineties looking for people to sleep with. I'm now going to skip that sort of thing to just go sailing, or do martial arts or just anything I enjoy intrinsically instead of as a means of getting laid.
Meditation and spiritual practices are very important to me. I have several gurus I study with on a regular basis, and I've gotten an awful lot out of those relationships. It also tends to be where I hang out in burning man--I love the sacred spaces village and find a lot of good connections in that space. I also like women's circles, and go to one every new moon. It's not just the connections I like, it's the spaces themselves and their healing power.
I enjoy making people laugh. I like satirizing things, which the profile linked to below is an example of. Laughter gets your endorphins running or some such. I do it out of the enjoyment of humor as a creative practice and because I really love seeing people light out with laughter when a good joke lands.
So that's me in a nutshell. I don't bite either--while I fancy myself a whedon-esque action heroine as my scary profile pic would suggest, I'm actually pretty soft and fuzzy.