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45 M Brattleboro, VT

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Hello winter! Energetic and somewhat edgy, irreverent and silly when the mood strikes. Throw in quick-witted, pretty open-minded and charismatic. A healthy mix of optimism and cynicism keeps me balanced. Lefty-leaning ENFP Libra for more hints about what makes me tick. Laughing is a big part of life and should be experienced as much as possible.

After a decade in Boston I find myself in Vermont. I’ve made some great new fast-friends, lots of interesting people out here ranging from millionaire hippies to hobos with great stories. Two things I've learned lately, never assume and careful with expectations about people and experiences.

A funny thing happened when I got out here last year, I got plugged into an amazing group of people. I have become no stranger to drum circles, overnight ceremonies and all sorts of spiritual/healing work. It’s been an exciting and difficult journey and likely the reason I came out here. The opportunity to experience life differently has been a game-changer for me in how I view life and why we’re here.

When I'm not on my laptop working with Internet startups I've been exploring Vermont and New Hampshire by motorcycle, doing a few hikes, trips to Cape Cod, kayaking and a lot of reading.
Lately I’ve been recognizing and breaking habits, from major life things to new walks, coffee shops, books and how I spend my time online.

I need to get back into running, for some reason it's been a lazy summer when it comes to physical exercise. There is a great dirt-road 6-mile loop nearby, a great way to break up the workday. Have run a 1/2 marathon and would do it again.

I have a radio show on WVEW.ORG in Brattleboro, you can stream it on the net or your phone, Wednesday from 6-7pm.

You: independent, passionate, playful, sharp. The slightest bit of an edge and a clever sense of humor. You stand out with a great profile that tells me who you are, not just what you like to do. Bland/empty/no-photo profiles are a deal-breaker.

You have great adventures/desires/passions to share. A well-stamped passport is a great starting point. The stamps, they say a lot about you. Hopefully you are at least spiritual. You do no blush easily and have a spark in your eyes. You, like me, are a communicator. You are fast on your feet and can initiate and return a verbal volley.
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring Vermont (recommendations?), running a bit, figuring out what I'm going to do next, working on my consulting business (working with Internet startups and social networks), hanging out in the woods, reading a lot - Everything from the New Yorker to shamanism.
I’m really good at
Making you laugh with clever/irreverent humor
Late night dance parties
Guessing what time it is without looking at a clock
Seeing things from all sides
Keeping my inbox clean
Finding new music
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and how I put you at ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Father John Misty, Sandigold, Frank Ocean, radiohead, DJ Darkhawk, meditation tracks, Royksopp, Lilly Allen, Band of Horses, Ryan Adams, Gnarles Barkley, Radio Paradise, The Shins, Nick Drake, Easy Star All-stars, Zero7, Kruder & Dorfmeister, Daft Punk, Stone Roses, Stone Temple Pilots, Audioslave, Kid Cudi, Sandigold, Frank Ocean, Oasis, Skeye, Ryan Adams.

David Sedaris, Jim Gaffigan and Craig Ferguson and community bloopers on YouTube make me lol.

Internet over TV, New Yorker and blogs over just about everything else. Recent Netflix and Hulu: Homeland! House of Lies, Bourne Legacy, Shame. Low tolerance for reality TV.
The six things I could never do without
Great conversations
Spiritual connection with the earth
Inspiration and ah-ha moments
Music and books
Being near the water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Actually trying to think less, but when I am I'm trying to focus on the present. Soaking up news and knowledge, wondering what the next phase of my life is going to be like and what I need to do to get there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Making a fire, listening to music and the random coyote howl. Sitting in a meditation circle. Out for drinks with friends in Brattleboro. I find that I'm quite prolific with my blog on Friday night, guess its all the ideas rattling around in my head finally starting to coalesce.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've got quite the imagination.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 33–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You love to laugh and want to meet The New Guy In Southern Vermont.