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metta8

43 / M / Gay / Single

Azusa, California

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Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am too damn shy, - pass on this one, and :-).

My Self-Summary

There is nothing to see here....move along now.... ;)

I lead a very busy full life. Time just seems to go by so quickly. I try to live environmentally friendly. Vegetarian. I do work too much but enjoy my work. I have some wonderful friends. But, it would still be nice to have someone special in my life: to cuddle with, to laugh with, to go to concerts with, to sit out in the backyard with, go on trips, go out and have fun, setting goals together, developing a relationship with, etc.

I'm not so sure that I will ever find a partner, even though I think that I would make a pretty good partner: caring, loving, dependable, passionate about things I care about, hard working, not flaky, educated, I make a living, love my work so much that it normally does not feel like work, I try to take care of myself, have good quality loving friends, etc.

What I’m doing with my life

I try to create balance but being that I'm self employed, I end up working a lot more than I should. Other than work, I enjoy spending time with friends, working out on a regular basis, helping with community events, and watching good independent films. I do enjoy travel but because of my work, it can be difficult sometimes. I'm hoping that my business will grow large enough so that I can take more time off.

I’m really good at

being honest

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm a little shy with people that I don't know. It sometimes takes me a little while to feel comfortable with complete strangers.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite films tend to be good independent films. So far this year, my favorite has been Séraphine.

A few of the movies that I have enjoyed recently in the main stream theaters are Slumdog Millionaire, Milk, Revolutionary Road, Juno, Gran Torino, and Cadillac Records. I also get a kick out of good bollywood films. I love really good slice of life movies: The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Young @ Heart, the Garden, Away from Her, Frozen River, Maria Full Of Grace, MILK, Real Women Have Curves, etc.

When I work out at the gym, I frequently enjoy listening to podcasts. Some of my favorites include: Feast of Fun, and This American Life.

I really do enjoy a wide variety of music. I'm not one to just listen to just one type of music. I listen to 60's, 70's, 80's, 90's, current, classical, swing music, etc. A few include Jay Brannan, Jake Walden, Matt Alber, Tori Amos, Abba, Beatles, Ray Charles, Natalie Cole, Ben Folds, Eurythmics, Madonna, the Mama and the Papas, Dresdon Dolls, the Cliks, Gossip, Joan Jett, the Puppini Sisters, Etta James, Carley Simon, Carole King, Elton John, Green Day, Pink, Erasure, Cyndi Lauper, Melissa Ethridge, etc. It is just a crazy mix

The six things I could never do without

- Health
- Friends
- Nature
- My business
- Good independent films
- tbd

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend more time thinking about taking care of my business and home, important current issues, as well as wondering what my next step in life should be.

On a typical Friday night I am

Going out to dinner with friends and then spending a nice quiet night at home. I'm not really big on going to clubs. I love to go out and do fun things, but it is not necessarily on a Friday.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have always been shy in meeting new people. I tend to only meet new friends through other current friends. And I don't know why but the sexier a guy is the more nervous it makes me to meet them.

You should message me if

after reading above, you think we might possibly click, and you are:

- your a caring, health oriented, responsible, sexy, hard working, honest, goal oriented individual.