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mettleinakettle

39 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 11
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Hinduism and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Open to making new friends with people who have good perspectives and values. For dating I'd prefer a grown-up irrespective of the age.

I'm mad-fun once warmed up. Be warned!
Kind, genuine, dignified, sophisticated, independent and deep are words used by friends to describe me.

Grew up in Bombay, lived in NYC for 12 years and SF for the past 6 years. Now lucky enough to shuttle between SF and NYC.

I have learned that there are some things we can't buy or fix, like: sincerity, integrity and compassion. They turn me on and they override most blemishes and are more attractive than any label.

I believe that at any point in life, muscles come and go or the bank account digits can change. Ideally, I'm looking for the unchangeable in a man. On that note, I've been attracted to the occasional bear (as they are affectionately called) and some people who identify themselves as corn-fed! haha!

I'm a published artist, a musician with a stellar day job to help me stay creative and independent. Passionate about what I do and enjoy the company of people who wake up with a purpose. Self-awareness is palpable, I naturally gravitate towards such people, even for friendships. If you like a grounded person with a creative view of life and a loving nature, I'm here. Say hello.

I'm emotive and on the lookout a real man with strength of character, charm and kindness and who's not a 40-something Peter Pan, please.

I'm attracted to, yet mostly wasted on the typical white American male, so if you are one and are interested, please be an exception to the norm. Yes, please be exceptional, at something, anything.
I’m really good at
being a friend. Being creative, I love all the arts, but I focus my talent on music.
The first things people usually notice about me
not like they tell me, you should ask them.
The six things I could never do without
affection, freedom, affection, hope, community, affection.
On a typical Friday night I am
amusing myself and friends in a variety of ways.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 35–47
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you're noble, solid, trustworthy, stand up for what you believe, are not a part of any clique, can discern a fetish from a lifestyle, and if you are taller than me and really, honestly, like to spoon.