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39 M Cortland, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 4
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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The color of true love is a wonderful shade of blue. Not a depressing blue, but a sunshine deep blue of summer days. If I could dance I would always be moving in such a way that it would inspire others to move with me. I enjoy reading all sorts of stuff, I would like to write but I need the inspiration. I teach art once a week and really try to show people that u don't need to be talented to do great art. I enjoy playing guitar but really should practice more. I want to be a single zappa style guy playing a guitar with a synth and a loop station. I need to work out more so that I can get rid of my belly
I see that a bulk of this site is wonderful women. All shapes and sizes. That makes me happy. Four years ago I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. I can walk but it isn't always easy. I want to write something wild and inspiring but fear that the beautiful women of ok Cupid haven't read this far. If u have, send me a note talking about yogurt
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm trying to use OKcupid to meet interesting women to inspire me to be more creative. I have to redo my life after being diagnosed with a disability. I am trying to get the perfect amp set up and then I will be buying some more art supplies. I really am looking to meet a woman who can work with me and keep me smiling
I work two jobs and try to balance my money. I can't afford to return to school to get my bachelor's. I am just trying to smile. I will probably sell my amps and just try to work on enjoying the life i live
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at smiling thru my foolish life. I have a lot of artistic talent and I would like to get into oil painting. I want to get wild and crazy with the guitar. I will just be me but I will loop stuff and use a synth to play horns n such over parts. I would like to combine free jazz and blue folk. I don't have an album yet, but I am working on it
The guitar stuff is fantasy talk. I am good at making people smile and working thru the obvious obstacle of a disability. Again I wish I could think of some electric Kool aid wonder words but I am just a 39 year old looking for a woman who likes Good the Bad and the Ugly
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I walk with a cane and have no fear of talking to strangers and that I am naturally goofy. It is a trait that many fake but some have the nerve endings that sizzle with laughter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have been reading a lot lately. I read all the George RR Martin songs of fire n ice. I'm also reading Charlaine Harris Sookie Stackhouse drama. Both r shows on HBO Game of thrones and True blood. I also enjoy Charles Bukowski and Tom Robbins. I also enjoy Hemingway and Kerouac. I do have a hobby with James Joyce but I won't hassle u with that unless ur interested. I also read comic books, but don't worry, they don't dominate my life.
Movies r a tough one to list. I like a lot. I like some old movies, Hustler, Raisin in the sun, Street car named desire, Rocky Horror picture show, the Natural. As for new movies, Cohen brothers and Tarantino movies r some favorites. I really like the Watchmen. I really enjoy the new Spartacus shows, and I like Weeds n Shameless. I like odd ball movies. The one that many will never have heard of is Dudes. It has Flea in it.

I like food but I don't know a lot about styles n such...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Simple, my cat, my guitar, my bike, a place to live, books and food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time working on writing fiction, trying to mature my guitar playing and working on getting art back in my life and cunnilingus. I had to add that. If u have read this far I would like to take u to lunch. The buffet at ponderosa is awesome
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
friday night? i might watch a movie or eat some food. I am working on making my nights more active
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
um, i think we would need to get to know one another before i gave too personal of a statement
You should message me if
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you shoudl message me if you like to smile and laugh at the silly things in life or if u like talking dirty with a guy. I don't imagine I will meet any of u but maybe u would like to explore some graphic fantasy that might only happen in
Words, my phone wouldn't let me finish the sentence