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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In ancient Greece, when someone died, they asked only one question - did he have passion? I believe in making my life count - as Robert Frost's poem famously reads "I've got promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep". Fulfillment comes to me when I am able to learn something new, overcome a challenge in front of me, or do well in something I am passionate about. When you meet me, you will find an easy going, jovial person on the exterior but I do have my priorities in order and know when to step it up like a man. Loyalty and honesty are huge for me so please have them tattooed on your arms.

FOR ALL WOMEN - I will NOT sleep with you on first date. Please don't ask me for hookups, what's my p**** size, etc. I am tired of all the perverted women out here. Gentlewomen only! And while I am not a gold-digger, please learn how to court a man. I like attention and good manners. And don't send me lame messages 'you're hot', 'sexy dimples ' - I get those on the street everyday - show me you want to know the real me not just my body. RESPECT goes a long way!

That was my impersonation of a typical woman's profile. On a serious note, I love reading,dancing, watching movies, learning different cultures/languages, traveling, and trying little gems of restaurants that Chicago has to offer. That's enough material for you to start a conversation with me - so get cracking!

P.S. If your life revolves around Cubs, Sox, Blackhawks, your puppy, or a bunch of selfies, move along. If you have muscles, move along. If you are a dominating alpha woman that likes to take charge, you are not going to get along with me - please move on. I want an attractive, intelligent, globally aware yet feminine woman that is not fixated on her first world problems. Basically I want a woman version of myself plus cooking skills minus the dominance. Intelligence, compassion, feminine demeanor and elegance turns me on.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a management consultant for a technology company during the day. By night, I a train for a triathlon, take dance or martial arts lessons or just hit the gym.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1) Reading people/predicting human behavior
2) Astrology!
3) Pursuasion
4) Being a great friend and giving advice - a friend in need is a friend indeed
5) Remembering things!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My communication skills and my confidence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite Book - Netherlands

Favorite Movie - Benhur (top favorite), Godfather 2 (Close second), IP Man (favorite martial arts movie), Gandhi (favorite biographical movie), Dancing with the Wolves, The Last Samurai (Tom Cruise fan), Shawshank Redemption (best underdog movie of all time), Rainman, There Will be Blood, Unforgiven, The Edge, Batman Returns (Christian Bale), Goodfellas (Joe Pesci!!!)

Favorite Food - Mexican, Indian, Italian, Cuban, Japanese, Korean BBQ, Vietnamese! (I'm a foodie!)

Favorite Music - 90s alternative, Michael Buble, Phil Collins, Enrique Iglesias, Julio Iglesias, Bachata, Ace of Base, Nirvana, Rap (Eminem, Dr Dre), Andrea Bocelli, Salil Chowdhary, R.D. Burman, Kishore Kumar, Shaan, A.R. Rehman.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Internet
2) Friends
3) Love
4) Stimulating conversations
5) Intelligence
6) Fitness activities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to become a better man.
Stories and movies that influence the world in positive ways.
Challenges to undertake that will test my limits
What I find attractive in a woman
Next fun thing to learn and put to good use.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for a movie or hanging out with friends. Makes a great date night as well!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sleep with my socks on.....sssh!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
About you - you are kind, honest, loyal, attractive and most importantly, FUN. I want to find a girl with whom time flies and I wish our date never ends.