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mgnm

39 / F / Straight / Single

Albuquerque, New Mexico

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 9:24am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm 39, green-eyed, freelance web programmer, never married, no children, Aquarius, ENTP, extrovert, tomboy, traveled, left leaning, short hair loving, little dog owning, sometimes impatient, curious, outdoorsy, gardener, adventurer, hiker, practical, handy & hardworking, oldest of 6 northern NM hippie kids, fond of my view of the Sandias, green chile & most things web.

I'm quick to laugh, am usually always up for an adventure, am never afraid of hard-work and am generous with my time and self. When I make a connection with someone, I'm a loyal, nurturing and fun loving partner.

You're brain & street smart with lots of common sense, easy to talk to, down to earth, confident, dependable, outgoing, energetic, opinionated, flexible & inflexible too, hardworking, geeky/nerdy in your own way, outdoorsy, adventurous, hands-on and a little (good) crazy.
What I’m doing with my life
Truth be told, I'm a study in contradiction... I like having nice nails but have no problem taking apart a toilet. I grew up in the country but am equally comfortable in the city. My house is tidy but you'll find messy drawers. I'm patient until I'm not. I love my dog but not his bark. I can buy real estate a lot easier than kitchen hand towels. I'm very outgoing but get uncomfortable if I don't make a connection. I like to be needed in a relationship but can't handle needy. I'm 39 but can act 49 or 29 depending on the day. I get nervous before going on some trips but once I'm in motion I'm ready to sell everything and keep on going. I love new experiences but also enjoy the familiar. I'll fight hard for what I believe in but I don't like conflict. Certain grammar errors drive me mad but I consistently make one that should be criminal.
I’m really good at
Getting things done.
Adventuring.
Dropping things or knocking them over.
Problem solving.
Being present.
Crosswords.
Packing.
Getting to the top of the mountain.
Having a sense of humor.
Never letting the bad guys win.
Crushing on smart boys who can...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a ton online... coding, technology, business, politics, how-to, gardening, stupid humor... I appreciate great feature pieces.

I have an affinity for NYT crossword puzzles but confess I will never be smart enough to finish a Saturday puzzle. I accept this.

Anne Sexton is my favorite poet. "Drowning [is] not so pitiful as the attempt to rise."

I adore NPR and This American Life.

Jon Stewart is an American hero.

I love all spicy food despite my stomach's rebellion. I'll eat just about anything really, except goat cheese. Never goat cheese.

I like British crime shows, crime dramas, DIY and documentaries. Breaking Bad is amazing! Homeland, House of Cards, The Good Wife, Sherlock. My favorite movie is a quirky French Canadian film called Leolo. My second favorite movie is What About Bob.

My music tastes are all over the place... Americana, alternative, bluegrass, blues, classical. Really I'm not very picky.
The six things I could never do without
My faithful dog/sidekick Knuckle
Friends & family
A comfortable place to live
Technology, Internet, Twitter, Instagram
Amazing NM clouds
300+ days of sun
My garden
Sandias, Bosque, Corrales ditches, NM clouds
A good adventure/hike
Green Chile (hot)
Starbucks French Roast
Garden guys who pick up my fall leaves
House cleaner!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
As a programmer, my head is full of code... lots and lots of lines of code.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Bras and single ply toilet paper just might be torture devices for women.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You have a little "good" crazy in your DNA. You smile at kids without realizing it. You're nice but not too nice. You enjoy adventuring and like to see what's around the next corner. Your friends laugh at your jokes.

Put yourself out there in a real way and you'll have my full attention.