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42 Barcelona, Spain Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 9
Straight, Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Catalan (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I do real.
I enjoy being surrounded by real people.
"Real" means not to mask neither my desires nor my shortcomings.
It's the best way to live, or at least the only one I feel comfortable with.
My curiosity sometimes borders with restlessness, but I wouldn't trade it for anything else as it keeps me alive.
I believe in responsible freedom: my autonomy should never be at the expense of someone else's happiness.
I'm currently exploring alternative forms of relationships based on non-exclusivity and I hope to find like-minded people here.
Some time ago, I found a deep, beautiful, meaningful love here in OkC. We are now in a deep, beautiful, meaningful relationship and we are open to meet new, interesting people.

I am complex, creative, and curious
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Besides the usual stuff like working, eating, sleeping, etc.: trying to figure out the most meaningful and happiest way to live it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Challenging dominant ideas, assumptions and prejudices.
Generating ideas - and helping other people do it.
Seeing the "big picture".
Planning holidays.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
On the physical side: they say my eyes, but I'm sure it's my nose :-)
Personality-wise: it's hard to tell, but I guess (hope?) they see a combination of niceness and honesty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"The Ethical Slut" (D. Easton, Janet W. Hardy) - A bible for a new approach to sexuality and relationships, I totally identify with its principles.
"The Island" (Aldous Huxley) - The utopia of Pala, the island that represents the world as it could be if we were only a bit wiser.
Lonely Planet travel guides - Any country; my ideal bookshelf has them all!
"Consciousness: An introduction" (Susan Blackmore) - A great, comprehensive and witty journey around the world's most fascinating topic.
"The Art of Loving" (Erich Fromm) - Lucid and powerful words of wisdom.

"Waking Life"
"The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"
"Los Amantes del Círculo Polar" ("Lovers of the Arctic Circle")
"Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter... and Spring"
"The Matrix"
"Lola Rennt" ("Run Lola Run")
"Blade Runner"
"The Rocky Horror Picture Show"

Massive Attack, Morcheeba, Idan Raichel, Franco Battiato, Kraftwerk.
Recently fell in love with intelligent techno and enjoying long nights of dancing to its beats...

Sushi, Italian, chocolate and sweets in general, tons of them...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sense of humor.
The internet.
Erotic shops.
Meaningful conversations.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Business ideas, game design, travel destinations, my sweetheart, tech gadgets, the meaning of reality, sexy stuff to do,...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a dinner out or inviting people at home; watching a movie; dancing in a club...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I occasionally enjoy dancing wildly by myself in my room.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've been reading everything so far and you smiled a couple of times.