I'm a comedy TV director/editor from Chicago, but spent most of my life in California (San Diego then LA). Honesty, kindness, reliability, intelligence, and making women laugh until they say "stop" are a big part of who I am. I'm looking for a serious relationship where we can be totally un-serious. And I'm good at keeping a woman fulfilled and laughing. I like women who are funny, optimistic, clever, playful, ambitious, good with kids... and concerned about making others happy. I think that describes me as well. Also I'm kind of an over-achiever in making breakfasts and I don't like to watch sports on TV.
I used to be a drummer (actually played in a lesbian band for awhile) and like to keep up with music, but still have a soft spot for old punk rock. I'm happily divorced with 2 great boys (6 and 9). I am kind, considerate, funny, generous, curious, interested in new things and new people and don't mind a little or a lot of change in life. I'm open minded politically, but tend to lean left.
I may have grown up quite a bit, but there is still that guy in there who did stage dives at a Buzzcocks show in Tijuana and could moon people while I drove. I like women who are a bit like that too. Not crazy... completely sane, but a little wild.
I sometimes wonder if I'd rather hear a story of the time you successfully did not go to Burning Man.