35 Oceanside, CA
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My self-summary
Cool dude, INTJ but I know how to turn on the charm when I need to. I like to make people laugh, I'm loyal to a fault, and I'm passionate about a lot of things -- some of them important (social justice, equality, kindness), some of them not so much (Batman, Star Wars, when to drive in the left lane).
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a writer, and I love tech, games, and making cool things. I run races, I volunteer, I play games (board and video), and I like good beer and good food. I hit the gym, I go swimming, and I like walking around places I've never seen before.
I’m really good at
Listening and conversation. Making breakfast. Wordplay.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly and funny. Some people say I'm a ginger, but I don't see it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This all seems like great fodder for first date conversation. Some people like to chat on here and sometimes I do just chat with people, but usually I have more fun going out and meeting in person!
The six things I could never do without
1. My mind
2. A pen and paper
3. My iPad
4. A good sense of humor
5. A deep breath
6. Good friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make the world a better place and how to make myself a better person. How those two things fit together.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, having a great beer, maybe playing some board games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I'm at the gym on the treadmill and someone starts running next to me, I'm secretly racing them. I always cheer inside when they stop running before I do.
You should message me if
You're passionate, smart, and caring. You're sexy and adventurous. If I've messaged you first.

I don't have A-list so if you liked me (and you probably did, because of course you did), I probably didn't see it. If you send a message I'll definitely know.