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40 M Corvallis, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:20pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
I love the idea of a "soul mate"...not necessarily the idea of two people meeting across time and space instantaneously becoming one, but a process were two people work to explore and discover their "one-ness" over time. I can't stand average, or boring or drab. Creativity, intelligence, uniqueness and personal style are what attracts me to someone...friend or lover. I like independent thought expressed through independent media. I love the poetry of language...English or other. I work in a hospital and have found very few people with my same tastes. My motivation for visiting this site is to find someone outside of my field to stimulate my mind and challenge me intellectually. I would like to find someone here with similar interests, but would also like to be introduced new things. I am very open minded.

It should be known that I am still legally married, but in the process of divorcing my wife of 4 years, who lives in Michigan with my two children. Everyone was right...marrying because of children never works! Just wanted to put that out there so there are no secrets.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a Registered Nurse from Michigan, and have just moved to Corvallis to start over.
I’m really good at
Ummm, I am not good at filling out self summaries on social sites. That much I have found. I am a good listener...could that get more generic? It is true though.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am told regularly that I look like Robin Williams. Not sure if that is a good thing to reveal on a dating site, but there you go. You would find out soon enough anyway.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle, Slaughter House Five, Hocus Pocus etc. The Alchemist is one of my favorite books. I love indie music and 80's new wave: Modest Mouse, Y, Y, Y's, Band of Horses, Sonic Youth, New Order, Galaxie 500, the Pogues, Depeche Mode, the Smiths/Morrissey, Mogwai, Thom Yorke, Broken Social Scene, Radiohead, Beirut, Joy Division, Stereo Lab, Pixies, Siouxie and the Banshees, L'Avventura, 10,000 Maniacs. My favorite movies are: Miller's Crossing, Harold and Maude, the fantastic Mr. Fox, Where the Wild Things Are, Double Indemnity, Brick, Barton Fink, the Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Chinatown, Unbreakable, Empire of the Sun, the Sheltering Sky, the Excorcist, the Shining. My favorite T.V. shows are: the Life and Times of Tim, Six Feet Under, Curb Your Enthusiasm. Oysters and Guinness are my favorite food combination. I also love Cuban, Tapas, sushi, Mexican and Indian. My favorite places are: Ireland, New Zealand, Newfoundland, Tahiti, Fiji, Northern California, Lake Michigan and New England. I don't like sports, with the exception of soccer and my opinion they are the only remaining true and un-corrupted sports.
The six things I could never do without
A razor.
My friends.
My music.
The movies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Traveling, the books I am reading at any given time, the stars, and the people who are close to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
...usually working. If not, at a move or out to dinner with friends. I am not into crowded clubs or bars, but I like checking out new music at small venues.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There are several movies and several songs that bring tears to my eyes when I see them, i.e. certain movements in Chopin's "Nocturnes", O' mio babbino caro, Beethoven's "Emperor Concerto". Ugh, this is painful. I like whispering my secrets rather than typing them.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are unique, passionate, love indie music/movies and want to see the World through two pair of eyes.