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33 • M • Ypsilanti, MI
I’m looking for
- Women who like men
- Ages 26–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Oct 19
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)
That said, I enjoy skill-collecting- my garden is doing well this summer; home ownership implies a lot of fun with caulk and furnace maintenance; I'm adding some web components to what I know about graphics and publishing so I can stay relevant in my field.
I'm thoroughly enjoying the local breweries- I'd evidently had the wrong opinion of wheat beer for a decade or so, but my distaste for IPAs has only grown. I'm incredibly disappointed that I've been in A2/Ypsi for five years and still can't find even a halfway-decent pitcher of margaritas. This town should be ashamed. Ashamed! Sangria is nice, but just doesn't cut it, kids.
If I can bike or walk to where I'm going, I'm happier once I'm there.
My superpower is always looking directly into random camera flashes in public.
Musical standbys include Yo La Tengo, Lou Barlow, Pinback and GY!BE; throw on The Stooges, The Flaming Lips, or Built to Spill any time. Moving toward Tycho and Fila Brazilia lately. Kinda glad that New Wave and Glam came back, but only so far as Grunge can come back too and kick their asses again. Auto-Tuning hurts me in my heart-place.
Kids in the Hall, BSG, Venture Bros., Robot Chicken, Game of Thrones, and Rick & Morty. John Oliver is onto something fantastic with Last Week Tonight. I follow Formula 1 pretty seriously, but I won't inflict it on you beyond recommending that you see the Senna documentary. I don't miss daily TV; with the net, we've been living in some version of my childhood future for a while now and it's awesome.
Kevin Smith movies are always good for a laugh and toe-dabbling intellectualism. So-bad-they're-good B-movies are LOTS of fun. Any documentary gets a chance, but most summer blockbusters do not. Thrillers are okay, but with the notable exception of zombie flicks, gore is a non-starter. Obviously, Thriller itself is golden.
I love cooking, and usually cook for an army that never shows up, leaving me with a week's worth of lunch. I usually only eat meat when I'm out and about. But I make decent chili, and decent Thai, Indian and Mexican food. I am willing to go to some lengths for good coffee, cheeses and chorizo.
As much music as humanly possible to experience.
Friends to tell me if I'm being a jackass.
B-Movies. Overacted? Shaky plot? Bruce Campbell? Press play!
My bike and my camping gear.
Some of this is most easily covered by (or purchased via) an Internet connection, though, so that might have to rank fairly highly in there, too.
• You think playing in the snow is a good idea for a snow day.
• There's a new beer on tap, 'cause I wanna try it too.
• You enjoy oddball film, and enjoy enjoying it with a friend.
• You've gotten this far and are open to a medium-to-long-term something.
It seems kind of obvious to have to state, but I've always had really good conversations and dates with people who are at least 85-90% matches. Less than 70-75%, not so much. Once I get talking, I'm easy to talk to.
I'm in an open relationship; I believe pretty strongly that if you're not going to be monogamous, to do it ethically and in plain sight. In English, I'm Available and everybody's okay with that.
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