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51 Philadelphia, PA Man


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  • Ages 39–58
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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...subject to change at any time...

I've got an eclectic vision of life. I'm into information gathering - from a variety of sources (I readily admit to falling into the internet rabbit hole, while investigating some bright and sparkly or deep and dark subject that has crossed my path)...Squirrel!!!

"The past cannot be changed. The future is still in your power."
Hugh White
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Preparing myself for the 2nd half of life. Trying to make a difference during each day at work. Being true to myself(OYS).

Doing more listening...I was at the mechanic's the other day, when an elderly gentleman sat next to me and asked..."Do you like football?" Over the next two hours, we had a far-flung conversation about sports, his WWII experiences (including a two month bus trip across the United States after his discharge from the Army), his deceased wife and his failing health. I watched his face light up when he talked about taking his nine year old great-grandson to his karate matches (the kid is a blue belt) and how the same kid solves all his computer problems. His car was ready before mine and I remember feeling like we had barely scratched the surface regarding my questions about a "used-to-be" America. Goodnight, Mr. Freed....wherever you are....

Wondering....If Fuzzy Wuzzy was a bear....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out those directions that IKEA puts in each box...Analysis without paralysis...Doing that which MUST be done...
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Copse and Robbers (Fortunes Made in the Woods of the Pacific Northwest)...The Mendacity of Trope...Olly Olly Oxen Free (Stop Hiding Your True Self)... Another Fine Mess (Adventures in Carefree Cooking)....

tv :
Breaking Bad (I'm going to have a weekend marathon of the last 8 don't tell me any spoilers)...Luther...Doctor Who (waiting to purchase the 2014 TARDIS...comes in blue...seems to be bigger on the inside than it looks from the outside...sonic screwdriver not included/I admit it...The Weeping Angels can scare the bejeebers outta me...The Whisper Men are running a close second)...Torchwood....Curb Your Enthusiasm...The Increasingly Poor Decisions of Todd Margaret...Keeping Up Appearances....Squidbillies...Chopped...

Soylent Green ("Soylent Green is people!!!")...Touch of Evil...Idiocracy...The Godfather (I & II)...The Postman Always Rings Twice...Groundhog Day...Double Indemnity...Blazing Saddles...Unforgiven...Kingpin...Star Wars...Night of the Hunter...Cool Hand Luke...Secretary...The Seven Samurai...Hard-Boiled...One False Move...Fargo...Blood Simple...The Big Lebowski (a wee bit of a Coen Brothers theme here)...The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension ("Remember, no matter where you go, there you are.")...The Wild Bunch...The Long Kiss Goodnight ("Chefs do that.")...To Live and Die in L. A.....Body Heat...Big Night....

- playlist on shuffle.....I have a thing for distinctive voices (sound as well as lyricism), which leads me to listen to a variety of music...for example... Ella...Louie...Miles....Frank...Willie...Biggie...Yo-Yo...Pavarotti...John, Johnny & Johnny (that would be Coltrane, Cash & Hartman)...Joni (not the one who loves Chachi)...Betty (Carter...not White)...Bob...Bruce...Tupac...Nina...Sarah...Duffy...Sade.....Etta...Diana (Ross and Krall)... Muscle Shoals-soul shouter stuff...

Theme Song(s) :
Steve Winwood - "While You See A Chance"
T. P. - "You Can't Hide From Yourself"

Like almonds....dislike almond flavoring.
Like cherries.....dislike cherry pie
Like corn..........dislike creamed corn (just look at it and you'll know why...)

There is just something about the texture of lima beans that becomes unpleasant after a few bites...

Smother it with as much gravy and onions as you want... it's still LIVER!!!

NEWSFLASH!! The spinach/kale greek yogurt dip at Trader Joe's may need to be regulated as a controlled substance, due to it's addictive qualities...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my internal B9
time travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering if we really are at the tipping point.

"All the forces in the world are not so powerful as an idea whose time has come. " Victor Hugo

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Edmund Burke (kinda sorta)

"Nobody is nobody. Everyone has something to offer." - Buckaroo Banzai

Expecting nothing and appreciating everything...

How that Peter Gabriel (ft. Kate Bush) song - "Don't Give Up" seems as relevant today as it did 25 years ago ( has been that long)

What is with the current fascination with ghosts and the supernatural on cable television. I keep trying to imagine what the pitch meeting between the network and the producer of the newest incarnation, Syfy's "Deep South Paranormal" was like....

"Bob, give me the concept in ten words or less"

"John, I can do it in five.....'Duck Dynasty' meets 'Ghost Hunters'."

"Bob, I'm liking what I'm hearing...tell me more"

"John, if this catches on, like I think it will, I see spin-off in the future. We can find some 'haunted' storage lockers that they can purchase with 'treasures' inside....."

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends...there's a 50% chance that I'll be at work...somewhere in the other 50%, is the chance that I might be with you...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"Alex...I'll take 'You've Got To Be Kidding Me' for $1,000"'s one...

I still like disco...'s another....

I think one of the scariest things in the world, is the idea of opening your door at midnight and seeing a clown standing there (damn you, Stephen King!)'s another

That fetish doll from "Trilogy of Terror" still creeps me out (over 30 years later)
You should message me if
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If you've managed to maintain a sense of optimism, contrary to all the "evidence" that the world presents... If you understand that race is primarily a social construct and it is not one of your hangups...If you remember listening to "My Word" on NPR...If you think we might have something of interest to discuss with each other... If "Wait Wait...Don't Tell Me!" makes you laugh out loud...If your skills at "Words With Friends" are up to the challenge ("midkid63")...If you have some schedule flexibility (I don't work a Monday-Friday/9-5 type of job)...If you usually find at least one segment of "This American Life" utterly fascinating...If you miss "Calvin and Hobbes" ..If you have some kind of kink...If you agree that deciding to meet for a cup of coffee (or your favorite beverage) doesn't require six months of deliberation, a bonded security guard and 9 forms of identification..If you have integrity...Seriously, if you have made it this far, you should leave me a message...I will respond...

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