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51 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 41–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:25pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Rare as a dodo bird and almost extinct, I'm an INTJ.
My heart can get away from me sometimes if you have the correct keys to the castle.
I've traveled and lived all over the world.

"Optimism," said Cacambo, "What is that?" "Alas!" replied Candide, "It is the obstinacy of maintaining that everything is best when it is worst.”

"I would rather be a ghost drifting by your side as a condemned soul than enter heaven without you... because of your love, I will never be a lonely spirit."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for a needle in a haystack.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
History and law, Judo, the Socratic Method, fencing, dancing, writing, tennis, irony.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"The Best and the Brightest," or how masterminds from Harvard, Princeton, and Yale got us into Vietnam.
"The Culture of Narcissism" by Chris Lasch.
Gulliver's Travels, Don Quixote, The Emperor's New Clothes.
the Beatles, Motown, Peter Gabriel, Otis Redding, Sia, Aretha Franklin, Kurosawa, Dylan, Bergman, Fellini, Crowded House, Coen Bros., Spencer Tracy in Inherit the Wind and Judgment at Nuremberg, Brando, Luis Bunuel, Tampopo. Gore Vidal, Noam Chomsky, Marquez, Howard Zinn, George Orwell, Pablo Neruda, Aldous Huxley...
("No my love, I didn’t think of you tonight
I opened my eyes and looked around,
and surrounding me the world is always spinning
Spinning, the world turns in endless space
With new love, with love that has ended
With joy, and with pain of people just like me
The world
I see you for the first time
But in the silence, I lose
I'm nothing compared to you
The world doesn’t stop for a moment
And as night always follows the day
The daylight will come
My world
The world doesn’t stop for a moment
And as night always follows the day
The daylight will come...")
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter, music, women in their birthday suits, critters, Annie Lennox, my intuition, wascally wabbits, my passport.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cognitive dissonance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a movie, reading, meeting someone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Culturally Jewish, I admire the Buddha but only worship books.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Not the way the game is played. Flutter your eyes or something, maybe I'll message you.