52 New York, NY
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My self-summary
I love music, admire the Buddha, and worship books. My dog and cat mean the world to me. Spent 7 years in Europe and the Middle East and studied Japanese language and culture in The Netherlands, among other things. Have a law and a masters degree.

"Everyone comes with baggage.
Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack."

"To be ignorant of what occurred before you were born is to remain always a child."
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for a needle in a haystack.
I’m really good at
the Socratic Method
Tilting at Windmills
Whistling past the Graveyard
The first things people usually notice about me
You tell me....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"The Best and the Brightest," or how masterminds from Harvard, Princeton, and Yale got us into Vietnam.
The Culture of Narcissism
Gulliver's Travels
Manufacturing Consent
Kurosawa, George Orwell, the Beatles, Zero Mostel, Aretha Franklin, Bergman, Fellini, Eric Clapton, Michael Moore, Kubrick, Graham Greene, Bob Dylan, GG Marquez, Ang Lee, Adele, Pablo Neruda, Jean Reno, Aldous Huxley, John Lennon, Luis Bunuel, Coen Bros., Tampopo, Pan's Labyrinth, Eric Hobsbawm, Umberto D, The Rules of the Game....

The six things I could never do without
Laughter, women in their birthday suits, critters, Annie Lennox, my intuition, wascally wabbits, German Expressionism, hot yoga, my passport, dark chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cognitive dissonance.
On a typical Friday night I am
At a movie, reading, meeting someone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
No matter how many times I watch it I'm still a sucker for "Casablanca."
You should message me if
Not the way the game is played. Flutter your eyes or something, maybe I'll message you.