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51 Charleston, SC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 6
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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New in Charleston. I'm a hopeless romantic. I've traveled a lot and lived all over the world.
"No my love, I didn’t think of you tonight
I opened my eyes and looked around
and surrounding me the world was spinning
Turning, the globe spins in endless space
With newborn love, with love that has ended
With joy, with pain of people just like me
My world
I see you for the first time
But in the silence, I lose
I'm nothing compared to you

The world doesn’t stop for a moment
And as night always follows the day
The daylight will come
My world
The world doesn’t stop for a moment
And as night always follows the day
The daylight will come..."

"The unexamined life is not worth living."

"Optimism," said Cacambo, "What is that?" "Alas!" replied Candide, "It is the obstinacy of maintaining that everything is best when it is worst.”

"It is better to travel well than to arrive."
-the Buddha-
What I’m doing with my life
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Missing you.
I’m really good at
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History, law, Judo, fencing, dancing, writing, irony.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"The Best and the Brightest," or how masterminds from Harvard, Princeton, and Yale got us into Vietnam.
All the usual suspects: the Beatles, Motown, Peter Gabriel, Otis Redding, Adele.
Kurosawa, Bergman, Fellini, Coen Bros., Bunuel, mostly foreign stuff these days.
Gore Vidal, GG Marquez, Howard Zinn, Aldous Huxley...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter, music, women in their birthday suits, critters, Annie Lennox, my intuition, "hot" yoga, wascally wabbits, tennis, the beach, my passport.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cognitive dissonance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a movie, watching Frontline, meeting someone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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Not the way the game is played. Flutter your eyes or something, I'll message you.

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