I am generally optimistic, I don't view negative happenings in life as such but rather as learning opportunities, challenges to overcome, and opportunities for growth. I am looking for more positive people in my life who are also growing.
I work about 30 hours a week which magically provides me with a very comfortable life style. Outside of work I go out with friends, most of which are musicians and the artistically inclined. I enjoy playing guitar, piano, and drums. I paint, draw, and sculpt occasionally.
As far as this site goes, I suppose I'm using it as an outlet to find a good gal outside of my friend groups, and as a means of entertainment.
Relationships have been wonderful and difficult, I'm sure many people can relate. As far as a relationship goes, beauty starts in the eyes, moves to the mind and lands in the heart. I view myself as an attractive dude, I want an attractive gal. I want a smart girl but more important than intelligence is positivity. I'm tired of being around so much negativity, it doesn't do anyone any good. If I can find these attributes I can fall in love again.
Perception is everything I recognize that we all have our own perceptions and everyone is both right and wrong about everything at the same time for this reason.