Let’s get a few cultural deal breakers out of the way to determine your maturity and compassion:
I am born legally blind; so can’t ever drive. If you can handle that, great; I be glad to chip in for gas as needed. Besides am a great shared rider — you will not be bored; later I can take your heart and mind, sometimes your soul, to new vistas if you want.
I am born legally deaf; so I use a hearing-aid for the good ear; other deaf. If you have no issues with that; wonderful! I wear it all the time (except sleeping); but best, I am an attentive listener to your heart and mind. For what you have to say matters to me.
I am born with some brain damage. Yes, parts of my brain is below the “norm”; other parts dwells in the gifted/genius realm. My brain will screw up at times; but other times it can delightful to explore.
These “limitations” — from Rubella — are part of what and who I am.
Note, I am not a “sugar daddy” because I am on SSI; sorry no expensive dinner every week or fancy jewelry. However, I am an excellent cook and financially responsible for myself. I seek no funds from you, to put you at ease. Yes, I give gifts, but with no strings attached or expectations.
Oh, am a short man (5 3’) and strong; but tall in goals, wide in dreams, and large in heart.
Now for some common sense deal breakers:
If you are young enough to be my child or are married, please move on.
If you have just broken up, feeling sorry yourself, unsure you want to date/have a relationship, or looking for a one night fling, please move on.
If it takes more than 30 mins to get to me by car/bus/cab, then its a long distance thing, please move on.
You made it this far….Thanks! If you want to know much more about who and what I am . . .read on ….it will be worth it. Let me be clear, I have no drama, nor seek it. I like and love who and what I am -- and becoming. :-)
I am a scholar (Martin Buber), graphic artist (digital restoration). I enjoy of all the arts, both in creating it and understanding the creativity of others. I have read widely and deeply. I enjoy reading out loud and having someone read to me.
Being around nature is important to me; but is best shared. Healthy cooking and eating brings enjoyment to me. Note, I am not a sports guy at all, so you won't find me in any sports bars; nor will I make you a TV/computer widow. ;-) I do enjoy long walks and yoga. Dancing too, though not in a too noisy or smoky place. Touch is cherished by me: cuddling, holding hands, massages, and warm silence. Enjoys various board games like chess, backgammon, scrabble and others; a billiards too! Solving puzzles as well. Some card games. Am always up for an adventure. :-)
My friends consider me a sensitive, warm, caring, and generous man. I have a big heart one can lean on and open ears to hear your heart/mind. A spiritual life is important to me, so I do nurture it; if wanted, I help others nurture their faith/spirituality. I am Jewish, Reformed branch, but am not bound by that branch. Being a freethinker and valuing freethinking is upmost importance to me.
As for all relationships, sharing freely life's tears and laughter is important. Friendship is a must core to me. In romantic relationships, I strive to be a responsible romantic. I am not clueless about love-ships. A love-ship is created by two over time, not come all at once, not blind and not fate. The lifeblood for both friendships and love-ships is honest, free and full communication of mind and heart that grows the relationship. I have much to share, nothing to hide, no games to play. I am not looking for marriage, thats a gift discovered not a goal. However long the season, the reason or lesson shared. As for shared sexuality, current tests and protection for us both is required.
Thanks for reading about me, shalom