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33 Brighton, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 20
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

How's it going over there? Glad to make your acquaintance.

I'm friendly, creative, a little bit daft sometimes. I like learning things, challenging myself and experimenting to see how things work.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working at being me on purpose.

I love playing, seeing my friends' and other bands, dancing, creating party sets and puppets, listening to people and being surprised, debating life the universe and everything and general larking about. I also meditate, exercise, and work on taking care of myself, all that jazz.

Job wise it's freelance design stuff. Some in London some here. Creating things for theatres, festivals and venues. The point where "imaginary" and "real life" stuff meet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting stuck in.

Drawing, exploring and playing with ideas. It involves a lot of listening too.

Making clothes, furniture, sets and wonderlands for parties or events.

Cooking and eating, and sharing that with people.

Also assuming people aren't interested in me and being unexpectedly shy in certain situations. I'm working on it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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What do you think about writing out these things? It always feels a bit weird to me...

Musics: Can, PJ Harvey, Sparks, Nina Simone, Sun Ra, Pulp, Stevie Wonder, Chic, The Flaming Lips, Leonard Cohen, KLF, Venetian Snares, Talking Heads, Silver Apples, David Bowie.

Books: Kurt Vonnegut, David Mitchell, Douglas Adams, Robert Anton Wilson, Gabriel Garcia Marquez.

Shows: Don't watch much regular telly although sometimes to be friendly with my flatmates. I do the laptop on demand thing because then I have to at least acknowledge that I've chosen whatever I'm watching. Had the standard Breaking Bad binge months, enjoy documentaries and a bit of Davey A, Stewart Lee, Chris Morris, QI. Love the muppets, and am a bit suspicious of those that don't.

Food is good - in general - love cooking, love eating when it's cooked well. Been on more of a veggie kick lately. Like to be aware of what I'm eating, but adaptable and adventurous. Got a food suggestion? Try me!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Loved ones, chipping in with regards to making the world around us, odd encounters that last a minute or a lifetime, noticing the wonder, joy and weirdness in things, having a chuckle and being grateful for it...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The ways we construct what we experience - the frames and narratives - to make sense of it somehow. Pattern recognition. Play.

How to shift power relations in the world and how to shift how we think and operate.

People are endlessly fascinating.

Enough! Let's find somewhere to go dancing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about somewhere here or somewhere else, or in with my pet rabbit Smudge.
You should message me if
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You fancy a drink and a natter or a little adventure with someone new.

You think it could be fun to get to know each other.

You want to find out more...