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sojourner720

33 Broomfield, CO Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Well hello... Thanks for clicking on my picture. I'm 33, never married, an IT consultant, and I've spent most of the last eight years out of the country.

I like my career without loving it. My real passion is for traveling and for live performance. I've been doing improv comedy for about six years and I co-lead an improv non-profit based in Boulder.

I am looking for someone that I have a fair amount in common with. So... if you're nerdy, open minded, physically active, love traveling, open minded, and love attending/performing at cultural events you should message me.

Eventually I want to be in a serious relationship with kids and commitment and all that. :) For now I'm working on my career and want to meet a lot of new people.

Special Note: I don't use any recreational drugs and never drink. I don't have a problem being around alcohol but if being in an altered state is big part of your life then we wouldn't work out.
What I’m doing with my life
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Reading, traveling, working, eating, being active, pushing myself, trying to figure out what makes me happiest. I travel a lot for work but it is on a stable schedule.

I really want to learn how to use a "Salmon Ladder."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being in front of people. I love presenting ideas, performing, and making others laugh. I'm fantastic at ignoring my tonal deficiencies and giving a rocking karaoke performance. I'm very good at keeping my word and sticking to schedules (and can lose patience with those who are incapable of doing either.)

I love adventures- I've spent about half of the last decade living outside the US (East Europe, East Asia, and Latin America) and, fortunately, am pretty good at communicating in other languages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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In the United States I think people notice my deadpan humor quickly. I've been told I don't smile enough, and that might be right, but part of my reasoning is that my jokes are funnier if you don't see them coming.

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My shoulders also get a lot of compliments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love non-fiction, historical fiction, science fiction, Game of Thrones (books and television series.) I loved the new Battlestar Galactica, Firefly, The Office, Parks and Recreation, Arrow, The Flash, other nerdy things.

My favorite books, in no particular order would probably include: The Aubrey-Maturin novels, Les Miserables, The Dark Tower series, Guns, Germs, and Steel, A Hero of Our Time, and a lot of Tom Clancy's stuff. I also love non-fiction travel writing.

I love all different sorts of food. I lived in East Asia for three years and, unfortunately, that ruined American-Chinese food for me, but You and Mee Noodle House in Boulder is fantastic. I also love Japanese food, Middle Eastern food, Korean food, and spicy/strong things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Asian food
Travel
Exercise
Internet
The performing arts
Friends who know when I'm joking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I want to travel to next. The pros and cons of traveling alone. Food. Books that I'm reading. Did all my friends get into serious relationships too early or am I moving too slow? Ya know, helpful stuff like that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm definitely done with the partying phase of my life. I prefer smaller groups of people and trying new things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't always bring things up that are bothering me as quickly as I should. I grew up around a lot of overly sensitive and a bit unstable people and the tendency to swallow my feelings is still there. I'm working on it.

Also... I have multiple pairs of superhero themed boxer shorts.

One more thing: I'm a deist. I believe in God but fully admit that I don't understand much about the concept. I'm not attached to a specific religion but I don't really get along with combative atheists who can't respect my appreciation for the divine. Arguing about the unknowable is exhausting to me.
You should message me if
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... you like traveling without firm plans.
... you've ever dressed up as a superhero(ine) for Halloween (or would like to!)
... you like science fiction and don't care who knows. (or at least don't care about how much I like it! Seriously- that will never change!)

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