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61 Petaluma, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's been a long while since i modified my self summary....
so here goes....
Most of my life, i have worked for myself, a self starter, with
a strong mind geared to executing creative ideas.
As a result of working for myself, i find that i have more free time
than most folks.....and as i have grown older, have found that there are less people to have spontaneous fun with especially
on weeknights which most people refer to as "school nights"
I do work on weekends but can often easily take them off but am also finished on the early side of saturdays and sundays....and still get to enjoy those days....
I LOVE seeing live music (locally and all over the bay area)
I suppose my favorite type of music is alternative in nature....
in other words, not what is played over and over again on commercial radio stations....i have a big interest in music festivals and consider them to be a great choice to base a vacation around. Always up for checking out "new on the scene" singer/songwriters, dynamic jazz shows at either yoshis,
all forms of bluegrass and the many shows they have at rancho nicasio.....and of course open to your good ideas....
I'm a to eat, love to cook, love to cook w/you
or for you.....I work at about 7 different farmer's markets and always have the finest ingredients close at hand....
I've had some relationships (on the shorter side ) in the last 5
years.....and now i feel like i am bursting at the seams waiting
to have the (ONE of MY LIFE) with a woman who i can be good
to and love well every single day!!!
Will it happen on Ok Cupid??? i like to think so, but so far, i have not experienced anyone that is truly free and available
and not way too busy.....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i'm following my interests (growing all the time)
Keeping track of human trends.
Being as good of a friend as i can be to the friends i have.
Always ready to take on new friends.
Eating well, getting healthier, exercising , being creative in my free time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
judging people's character, combining ingredients into delicious meals, fixing things, figuring out directions, reading maps, speaking my truth, carrying a tune, making people laugh, telling stories, giving /receiving affection, making people feel comfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my funny sense of humor and wild imagination
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like reading biographies of all different kinds of well as books/columns/essays written by political scientists and economists that help me to interpret the direction of where we as a nation and world are headed in the not too distant future.
Also like to read philosophical and books of a spiritual nature.
i'm all over the map with movies and music......
i love documentaries and enjoy seeing them when they first come out at film festivals...definitely indie films...several mainstream comedies and certainly dramas....anything camp, possibly outrageous.
Music....I have an extremely vast music collection....all kinds of music....from folk>indie>punk>alternative>americana,singer/songwriter>jazz>world>classical
The best music is music you can dance to!!!

FOOD is my passion....i have worked with food since i was in my 20's. Returned to school about 12 years ago to earn a culinary certificate .
have worked off and on in various cooking capacities...

I love all ethnic foods(eating out) love to cook from scratch but am quite skilled at following and sometimes adapting recipes found online or in cookbooks.

I'm a huge fan of MANY tv/cable network shows...
among them: GAME OF Thrones, Mad Men, Nashville, the daily show, Orange is the new Black, inside Amy Schumer, Nathan for
you, and many others....
Don't worry i'm not a couch potato...i have a dvr and tape everything for later viewing....
i tape the sunday shows....although they often put me to sleep, ALL those conservative talking heads!!!! sheesh.....
the world certainly has its problems....lots of innocent people always in the middle......
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my health, friends and family,nature,love/affection, humor, music/festivals and the accompanying culture.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life/living better for myself and others. things to invent, products and services that might be useful/desired/needed.
....Finding a strong, happy, lasting relationship that is a constant renewal of joy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
often going out to eat w/friend/friends, seeing music, chilling at home or having someone over for dinner.....or ?????
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book, just ask!!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You resonate with anything i've said here....
you are giving, loving, a good listener, a healthy eater, like the outdoors and camping, enjoy live music and going out dancing.
and you are not an "old fogie"
Spontaneity is a big plus++++!!
You want more LOVE in your life

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