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34 Glen Ellyn, IL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-38
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:40pm
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Alright, I'm just going to rattle off some factoids about yours truly:

- I'm politically a lefty. Pro choice, gun control, feminism, raising the minimum wage, and holding the police accountable for their actions.

- I love cats. I've loved them my whole life, which predates the internet. I also love dogs, but my asthma makes them physically unbearable.

- I love geeky things. Batman, Doctor Who, Neil Gaiman, and so on.

- I love metal, but more the classic sort like Dio, Iron Maiden, and the first so many Metallica albums.

…okay, I'll add more.

I'm in my mid-30s and I'm at the point in my life where I just want to cut the crap. I'm looking for a WOMAN. Not a lifestyle accessory. So if you're done with the young adult drama and want to talk to an honest-to-Cthulhu grown man, I may fit the bill.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a CNA. I like taking care of people, whether I'm doing my job or babysitting my nieces. I'm taking classes so that I can be an LPN or RN. I have a BA in music, but that's not much of a career path, so I went into nursing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I play the guitar pretty well. I used to teach kids how to play. I also make a pretty good mushroom risotto and tomato pasta sauce. And I know the streets of Chicago better than many.

If you're a grammar nerd, hopefully you can tell by now that I can write and spell properly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my glasses. When I take them off, I kinda look like Luke Skywalker.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Neil Gaiman: Neverwhere, American Gods, Anansi Boys, The Graveyard Book, Coraline, The Sandman series, Smoke & Mirrors, Fragile Things, Trigger Warning. With Terry Pratchett: Good Omens
Terry Pratchett: Discworld series. Really, any one of 'em.
Isaac Asimov: Foundation series, Robot series, The Gods Themselves, various short stories (especially "The Last Question").
Calvin and Hobbes. Far Side.

Dark City, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Hammer Horror films (Horror of Dracula, Curse of Frankenstein, Frankenstein Must Be Destroyed, etc.), Universal horror films (Bela Lugosi and Boris Karloff, etc.), Forbidden Zone, The Adventures of Baron Munchausen, The Thing, Hara Kiri, Yakuza Weapon, Ichi the Killer, They Live, Big Trouble in Little China, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Time Bandits, Life of Brian, Johnny Dangerously, Blazing Saddles, Ghostbusters, Beetlejuice, Old Boy, Evil Dead, Evil Dead 2, Army of Darkness, Yojimbo, Rashomon,

MST3K, Burn Notice, Doctor Who, Batman TAS, Archer, Farscape, Daily Show, Colbert Report, Last Week Tonight, The IT Crowd, The Flash, Comedy Bang Bang, Late Show with Stephen Colbert

Oingo Boingo, Dio, Pink Floyd, Garbage, The Cure, Muse, Queen, David Bowie, Depeche Mode, Devin Townsend, old Metallica, Overkill, Iron Maiden, King Diamond, early Van Halen, AC/DC, first few Guns N' Roses albums, Talking Heads, Porcupine Tree, Blackfield, Steve Wilson, Steve Vai, Guthrie Govan, classical music, jazz,

Italian, burgers at Kuma's, French, Korean, sushi, barbecue,

*Blender Setting*
Pureé, frappé
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my guitar
a hot shower and wet shave
internet access
various vital organs

…I used to have my cat in this list, but he passed on. And while I miss the hell out of him, I'm still alive.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics in our country, what to eat for lunch, if I could reasonably live comfortably in the 15th Century or so, goofy thoughts like the hilarity of seeing a wedding cake with Lovecraftian wedding cake toppers, and naturally, that awkward moment from years ago when I made an ass of myself. We all do it, don't deny it!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. I work for an agency, so my availability is limited and spread out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never learned to like my vegetables :-\. If you're vegetarian, I promise to not take you to a barbecue restaurant or steak house.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've read enough of my profile to think we may get along.

You can laugh at a dirty joke.

You want to head down to Flarby's to see the Triforce.

MST3K forged a portion of your childhood.