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35 M Palo Alto, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:57am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a native Californian who enjoys technologies and caffeine (although I'm cutting back on the caffeine not anymore--free Coke Zeroes at work). Also, I'm not that good at describing myself (too humble? not creative enough? who knows). Actually, it's because I'm rather shy and I don't like tooting my own horn.

I am eclectic, smart, and loyal
What I’m doing with my life
Work: I work as a software engineering and a biotech company on the peninsula. I enjoy it, even though at times it wears me out.

Leisure: I enjoy learning foreign language and am currently studying Mandarin at the Language Studies Institute in Palo Alto (it's a small, private company). A few nights a week, I get together with some friends for boardgames and various RPGs. In my (limited) spare time I also do some programming (mainly to scratch a creative itch and to keep my skills up-to-date). I enjoy cooking, but cooking for one isn't that enjoyable (plus you end up eating the same thing for a few days in a row--or throwing it out).
I’m really good at
Remembering things (but not necessarily remembering them when I need to).
Also, over using parentheses.
The first things people usually notice about me
Truthfully, my guess would be my weight. Growing up I was fairly self conscious about it, but I've been going to a nearby gym for the past few years. It's a slow battle, but I'm winning it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Right now I'm on a bit of a Japanese rock kick--the pillows, HIGH and MIGHT COLOR, and ASIAN KUNG-FU GENERATION right now. I wish The Postal Service would release a second album. I'm a fan of trip-hop like Portishead and Massive Attack, older Everclear and Blink-182.

Movies: I'm not a big fan of going out to the movies (>$10 a ticket is I'm not a fan of our stupid-long copyright laws)

Food: I love love love eastern Mediterranean food. Sushi is always good. Also Punjabi(I think) stuff. Hell, most things, except offal, tripe, etc.
The six things I could never do without
I'm going to assume those things necessary for life are already included.
Something nice to drink (alcoholic or not--nice tea, tasty water)
Something to learn from (book, internet, etc.)
Mountains nearby (I grew up surrounded by them; they seem to help me feel grounded. I don't think I'd do well in the Midwest.)
plus three more to be determined at a later date.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home to rest and catch up on tivo tivo's broke. :`-(.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nothing on line. (The internet is forever and it never forgets). Ask me if your really curious, perhaps on a date?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating