-When someone says "I'm just here for friends really" what they really mean is "We should totally be friends! But only if I find you attractive. Sorry bro"
-When someone says "Please be original. Don't just message me with "hi" or something" what they really mean is "I mean you can type me out a 3 page letter but I still won't reply unless I find you attractive. Sorry again, bro." You won't even get a reply saying simply "Not interested, sorry."! And you're a douche for assuming you would!
-Also apparently there's A LOT of people on here looking for this "Redneck Romeo" guy. Whoever he is, where ever he is, he must have ladies fighting over him 24/7.
But anyway, long story short, to win the game of Okcupid you simply must be attractive.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/ Also heres an Okcupid blog with stats. Everybody's racist! :D