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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Today – 6:22pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
My self-summary
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Let me see which historical person's witty aphorism I can steal for this purpose...shall it be Benny Hill or Barbara Bush? I value friendship more than individuality. But I value individuality more than flash mobbing.

I was raised mormon, and left it around 18. My dad is from Germany. I bring this up because I find I usually get along well with other religion escapees and first generation types.
What I’m doing with my life
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My biomed company recently fell apart, so while I still have some severance payments coming in, I'm living the dream of doing art full time. It's tough! I need some feedback. Please talk to me about art, or let me show you what I've been working on.

I like books, hikes, floating in lakes - face up, preferably - paddling down rivers, hammocks. I climb a little bit, and sometimes swim.

I own a cello I can't play.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
One-liners, cliff-hangers, geometric transforms (you know what I'm talking about), flashlight tag, hot lava monster, and it turns out kickball.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know about 'people,' but one person said I looked exotic. My forearms are like drumsticks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Dostoevsky (though I read about 10 young adult fiction per each one of his), Raymond Carver, Flannery O'Connor, Lynda Barry, Murakami

Colbert, Stewart, Parks and Rec, Dowtown Abbey, Game of Thrones, Brick, Moonrise Kingdom, Princess Monoke, King of Kong

Devotchka, Mason Jennings, Yeah yeah yeahs, the XX, Modest Mouse, Tune Yards, the National, EMA

I eat all food. My favorties are Mexican and this New American stuff like pork bellies and bone barrow. I love cold left over burritos, when all the flavors have soaked into the tortilla. yum yum yum
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Possessions are fleeting, but I'm a big fan of my brothers. There are four of them. That leaves space for my laptop, oh, and I guess my sister...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Naming - in custom order - each of the Seven Dwarves: first alphabetically; then in order of appearance in the film; then by rank: most handsome, most likely to succeed, most likely to marry a rich man, etcetera.

More typically, however, I am hanging out with my friends and we are having a lot of good and fun times and everyone is feeling nice and laughing and there are pretty colors around us.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I know all the words to 'under the sea'.
You should message me if
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your name is not Paula, Pam, Lindsay, or Bernadette - those are my mothers' names. Also, if you've got a sense of humor.