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57 M Brooklyn, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 10:40pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Poorly), French (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
i'm the producer/promoter/ curator of live music shows. my own live music series is called dancestand, in which i feature any type of music you can dance to from jazz to hiphop, and has played in brooklyn and manhattan at various venues like littlefield, sugarland, le poisson rouge, the delancey, and lit lounge. i'm also a filmmaker/animator and curator/producer of the new vision cinema series. being an animator also qualifies me (i guess) as being something of an artist and a writer (i write and draw the whole thing by myself). i love it all, including curating other filmmakers' works in my film series and promoting (and particularly, DANCING to) the various dance bands in dancestand, i know i'm doing now what i really want to do the rest of my life. about the only thing that's missing is the right female companion to share this crazy life with me. i've yet to find her. came close for about 17 years, but now it's time to move on and find someone for the rest of my time here.

I am not, what, and you think
What I’m doing with my life
band promoter, dancer, filmmaker/ quasi-animator, film series curator.
I’m really good at
my art and being oblivious to nonverbal communication. i have no desire whatsoever to take up mental telepathy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: generally, books about knowledge most people don't know or bother about.

MOVIES: c'mon. i'm a film show curator. pretty much the whole spectrum.

MUSIC: a wide variety of popular music. anything from surf to symphonic. listen to a bit of electronic of late.

FOOD: practically anything, but low on sugar.
The six things I could never do without
love, music, movies, art, writing, dance
On a typical Friday night I am
dancing, or looking fora a good place to dance or put on my dancestand shows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
...they really expect me to answer this?...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–61
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you can deal with someone who doesn't read signals. i'm dense. speak english. i'm not even into people who are a lot like me. i look for the complement much more than the mirror. be the day to my night. that way, we'll both encompass the world. those who tried to figure me out in the past were only left wondering.