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mildoats

43 / M / Straight / Single

Providence, Rhode Island

His Details

Last Online
May 15
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Reflexive. Comportment largely that of balance and composure, yet have a strong taste for the intense. Born and raised in the South, though that largely comes out in odd ways presently. Dearly loves barroom/coffeehouse philosophizing and interpretation. Hung up a bit on politesse (the Southernness). Grew up in rural area; preference perhaps more urban now but with strong doses of the wild thrown in. Deep appreciation of the absurd, of the jarringly eclectic. Individualistic, yet preoccupied with community and sociability. Wry. Sometimes too serious (as manifested here), yet ever ready to laugh at myself.
What I’m doing with my life
Counting myself fortunate that I do what I love and value.
I’m really good at
Not for me to say.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have the (unshaved) legs of a Milanese supermodel.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Viewing matter: Conversations with Other Women, Antonioni flicks, Blackadder, North by Northwest, Metropolitan, In the Mood for Love, stuff with Siguorney Weaver/Willem Dafoe/James Spader/Klaus Kinski/Julie Delpy/Dirk Bogarde/John Goodman/Charlotte Rampling/Toshiro Mifune, East is East, Mad Men, Dirty Pretty Things, Tarkovsky, wacky adaptations, The Wire, The Thick of It.

Music: punk and postpunk Brits (New Order, Snow Patrol, The Cure, Bloc Party, Bryan Ferry, Gang of Four), late Beethoven piano sonatas, early Prince, The National, Xiu Xiu, LCD Soundsystem,

Reading matter: The Red and the Black, Alan Furst, Cambridge, Angela Carter, the Digested Read column in The Guardian, The Politics of Friendship, mysteries, Burnt Norton, Eric Ambler, The Inheritance of Loss, Jean-Luc Nancy, Remainder, The Use of Pleasure, John LeCarre, lots of geeky stuff

Digestibles: dishes with mushrooms, olives, and tomatoes; cheeses of all ilk, gin, unagi (Southernness again), duck (ditto), very dark chocolate, arugula, things with cilantro or basil, saag paneer, Newcastle Brown, mesclun mix, pistachio ice cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the enchantment of the world. That and just how odd people are (myself included).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The volume on youthful excess reports I founded a "religion" grounded on the writings of Georges Bataille and Prince lyrics.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you feel so inclined.