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31 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:41pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I appreciate femininity and the dichotomy of strength and vulnerability that I find there.

Communication is sexy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Bringing more to the table than I take away.

Being perfectly imperfect.
I’m really good at
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Holding doors for strangers while smiling.

Being honest.

Creating intimate moments.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I make eye contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Catch-22, The Tao of Pooh, 1984, Sirens of Titan, Tao Te Ching
Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Stranger than Fiction, I Heart Huckabees
Music: Nine Inch Nails, The Velvet Underground, Neil Young, Gorillaz, The Roots, Binary Star
Activities: Meditation, Rock Climbing, Cycling, Hiking, Camping, Snowboarding

"God does not care... The purpose of human life is to love whoever is around to be loved" -Kurt Vonnegut

If life has taught me anything it's that it's all simply a matter of perspective.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The best things in life aren't things. But, despite any philosophical differences I may have with the question, and in the interest of promoting dialogue:

Quiet time
Actual old fashioned phone calls
The off switch on my phone
A todo list app
A good Chef's knife
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If you have one foot in yesterday and one foot in tomorrow you're pissing all over today.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Meditating while listening to Junior Dad by Lou Reed & Metallica
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