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milevy

26 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–27
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 5
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Swedish, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm half Swedish and half South African, which are as far apart temperamentally as they are geographically. I fend off any kind of identity crisis by reminding myself that despite everything, they're in the same time zone.

Meanwhile, here in New York, I spend my days at a magazine, walking the line between advertising and journalism, writing some things when I have to and others when I have time.

Generally, I'd rather be writing, listening to music, or drinking with a few friends in a dimly lit room wondering when the robots will take over.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to find a balance between ambition, imagination and reality.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Puns. Metaphors. Exploring. Ikea. Optimism.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
East of Eden, As I Lay Dying, By Night in Chile, Beast of No Nation, Buddhism Without Beliefs, Siddharta, Island of the Doomed, The Phantom Tollbooth

Midnight in Paris, Up, Wall-E, City of God, Being John Malkovich, Inglorious Basterds, Amour, Whiplash

Yeasayer, Broken Social Scene, Kanye, Autre Ne Veut, Sufjan Stevens, Jessie Ware, Kurt Vile, The Clientele, Alex Winston, John Wizards, Outkast
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Words
Saturdays
Good food
Quality lighting
Bodies of water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything virtual reality is going to do to real reality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with a beer and friends in a place where we can sit, unless there's a band playing, in which case I'm happy to stand.