Summer is full bore and it seems like people either love it or hate it. I can create fun all year round, but Summer is my season. No A/C hugger here! Now is for cycling, and summer dresses; picnics and farmers markets; wine on a patio, outdoor movies and paddling in boats. And on the really hot days, it’s for sleuthing the best ice cream/gelato/frozen custard in town! Summer sometimes brings steamy days, but it also brings sensual nights and silky mornings, and I’m in heaven.
How do you like your summer? On the beach? On the water? Under sail? With fresh food? Grilled? With a beat? A baseball? Road trips? Singing in your car? Is their anything that you really want to do this summer? I'd love to hear about it!
I like to do and try new, fun things. For me, life is kind of one big adventure. It doesn’t matter whether I’m doing small, quiet things or I’m being active, because ‘adventure’ is really a way of looking at the world, and noticing the moment. It’s being open to the experience, even if I might have to 'stretch' a little. So rafting down the Colorado River, cycling through Tuscany, or exploring a city is Adventure. So is simply trying a new route to work, eating my first oyster, noticing the clouds before a storm, or looking at stars.
Adventure is also experiencing another person on a deeper level. And I am looking to share life with someone who becomes my best friend, playmate, and lover: You can talk with your best friend about almost anything because you respect and have heart for just who they are; you have great fun and play well together when you're in sync, and the chemistry from a simple touch or look from your lover gets your attention. But I think the most important thing is that we LIKE each other. Even though we have some separate interests and activities, we simply enjoy doing things together. I believe that when the inevitable bumps and challenges come along, having that heart and chemistry with each other lets us work through it. It takes time to develop those kinds of deep connections, but it all starts at the same place. It simply begins with, "Hello".
That’s my philosophy, anyway. And that’s the kind of person I’m looking for. I love a guy with confidence, a curious mind, a great sense of humor, and a relaxed, genuine way with people. I’m attracted to slightly geeky guys because they’re interested in many things (and, honestly, because I’m slightly geeky, too). I’m very fit (although not a superb athlete), active, outdoorsy, reflective, healthy, affectionate and playful. If you are too, I would love to hear from you!