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32 Lake Stevens, WA Man


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  • Ages 26–35
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Yesterday – 7:52am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
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Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), French (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Broadly interpreted, the life of the mind forms the most important part of my life. I'm getting my PhD in cinema studies, but that means I enjoy all film, not just avant-garde or silent cinema -- I'm not too fond of the high/low divide in art. I'm looking for someone engaged with and observant of the world: someone curious, trenchant, and articulate about interesting problems. Frontiers of pleasure, knowledge, and inquiry take many forms, colloquial, refined, aberrant; I want a partner in exploration.

Other interests include collecting music, baseball, and enjoying quality television. I would love to get back into rock climbing. Knowing how to drive a stick shift is a turn-on; liking technology is a bigger one. Oh! -- board and card games are the cat's meow. Speaking of, I love and am good with animals of all stripes, feathers, and fur. Looking for an independent, loving partner who can provide sincere, intelligent, direct intimacy.

Bonus points if you know the reference in my username. Double bonus points if you know what a rhizome is.

I am apocryphal, studied, and a little perverse

N.B.: Totally into the trans* movement, even though I'm cis-male.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working towards my goal of becoming a professor; this is a professional goal, but more importantly I want to reach a place where I can devote myself to researching and answering questions that I find interesting. I expect my partner to be engaged with something important to them; I'm beyond people who are merely "working a day job" and in their spare time "living life," "loving every day," "smiling and laughing," or other oblivious platitudes. I think to enjoy life you've got to be more than a little snarky about it. But my skepticism is probably just wallpapering over a sentimental streak. I dare you to show me an animated film and find out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The cinema. The Oxford English Dictionary. Fonts, seriffed and otherwise. The interrobang.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at the movies, in at the movies, or reading a book. Or maybe bowling. Damn, it's been a long time since I went bowling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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-- I still forget on which album any given Beatles song was released.
--I am the karaoke king of Elvis' "Burning Love" -- and the fucking emperor of the fabulous Wynonna version from Lilo & Stitch
--I learned a little bit of Hawai`ian language, and would die to meet someone who speaks it.
--Of the people I've dated seriously, only one was comfortable with my bisexuality. I'm looking for that ratio to improve.

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