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25 Minneapolis, MN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I swear like a sailor, but I promise I'm a nice girl.
What I’m doing with my life
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I grew up in South Minneapolis, went to liberal artsy college in St. Paul, and spent my first year after graduation in Americorps attempting to teach high schoolers about health. These days, I'm doing public health research in Saint Paul.

After work I run (when I'm not recovering from an injury, which is the case way more often than I'd like), read books in nearby bars, binge-watch bad tv, drink with my friends, and eat burgers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Walking in heels
Swimming with a can of beer in one hand.
Beating you at Bananagrams.

I've worked in customer service and sex education, so I have a thick skin and can be subjected to all kinds of weird, crazy, or just plain rude bullshit from people without crying, screaming or ceding any ground. It's a useful skill.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That my hair looks completely different than it did the last time they saw me.

Used to be my chipped front tooth, but I finally had it fixed a few months ago. My dentist was thrilled.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: East of Eden, Infinite Jest, Joan Didion, Flannery O'Connor, Mary Karr's memoirs. I think I've read The Postman Always Rings Twice more times than I've read any other novel (Tender is the Night is probably the runner-up).

I read a lot of contemporary novels and short story collections:

Movies: Blue Velvet, Singin' in the Rain, Chinatown, Bringing Up Baby, Ghost World.

Shows: Pretty much all of 'em, but I'm trying to cut down.

Music: Most. Tom Waits. Talking Heads. The Vulgar Boatmen.

Food: Spicy. I love to cook, but I have popcorn for dinner at least once a week.

I listen to Bookfight, Lady to Lady, This American Life, and Savage Love while I cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee coffee coffee.
I am suspicious of people who don't drink it.

Good walking shoes (and yes, heels can be walking shoes)
I was on crutches for several weeks last year and it was a fucking struggle.

Bus card.
Headphones, books, internet connection.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The book I'm reading. When I can fit in my next run. Whether I want pho or tacos or popcorn for dinner. How to get the most out of my free time (I try not to think about work when I'm not there, but sometimes I fail). What my next step will look like. When the next bus is coming.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Beers with friends, at a bar or a bonfire, looking for somewhere to dance or something to netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a virgin who can't drive.

Guess which half of that is true...

For real though? I'm new to dating women, and it makes me feel like a nervous 14 year old kid all over again.
You should message me if
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You want to get off the internet and get a beer.
You want to go to a museum or talk about books.

You're comfortable going on dates with someone in an open relationship.

Dudes: This should go without saying, but sadly it doesn't: If you harass me and/or send me completely inappropriate messages I will ignore, block, and report you.