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mindwider

48 M Bethesda, MD

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:50pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
Everything, nothing and sometimes in between.
I’m really good at
- listening
- empathizing
- being calm
- finding the positive in any situation
- being grounded
- always being reliable
- finding new challenges
- learning and growing
- reading people
- taking care of the important stuff
- enjoying simplicity
- always being myself
- understanding other people's point of view
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read nonfiction. Usually I don't pay attention to the titles or authors, just the topics. Lately, I have been reading a lot of books about the brain and its impact on society and human behavior. Although, I was given and read a book about Jewish gangsters because my great grandfather was mentioned in the book. Presently, I am working on The Creation... E. O. Wilson is deep yet accessible. Hard to stay positive and live life in the now when reading about the destruction of the environment.

TV generally does not interest me, I gave away my TV five years ago. Sometimes when visiting others, I might glance at a science show, the news or something random. Funny thing is, at this point, I can't imagine how I could find the time to regularly watch TV anyway. For me, life is for living rather than vicariously experiencing hyperreality.

Movies have to be mentally challenging to interest me. I am not content to just sit and passively watch.

Music, uh, I have rather conflicting preferences. I like classical, world music and hard, pounding rock, electronica... basically I like anything except country and rap. Oh yea, I like blue grass music, but only the fast kind. Sometimes, I just like silence and drone.

Food, again like music I have rather conflicting preferences, but I recognize and really enjoy foods that are interesting, creatively prepared and healthy. I eat a very healthy diet. Although, I will try anything. Well, as long as it is not greasy and badly prepared.
The six things I could never do without
1) My kids
2) Health
3) Mindfulness
4) New experiences
5) Exercising
6) The Great Outdoors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- My kids and how to be the best father I can be.

- Enjoying life no matter what happens.

- How best to make my interactions with others as rich as possible.

- Living a full, meaningful life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working out at the gym, then helping to coach my kid's team, reading and going to sleep. No, I am not opposed to going out and doing something else. I enjoy both routine and variety.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I put a joke here, I wonder how many people would think it was really true? (even I said it was a joke)

OK, I will give it a try...

I put myself through college robbing drug dealers.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You think that life is more than just an opportunity to get from point A to point B