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49 Bethesda, MD Man


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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
May 28
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Rotuman (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Okay), Sanskrit (Fluently)
My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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Everything, nothing and sometimes in between.
I’m really good at
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- listening
- empathizing
- being calm
- finding the positive in any situation
- being grounded
- always being reliable
- finding new challenges
- learning and growing
- reading people
- taking care of the important stuff
- enjoying simplicity
- random acts of aburdity
- always being myself
- understanding other people's point of view
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shoulders, smile and facial tattoos
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to read nonfiction. Usually I don't pay attention to the titles or authors, just the topics. Lately, I have been reading a lot of books about
economics, anthropology and mindfulness.

TV generally does not interest me, I gave away my TV five years ago. Sometimes when visiting others, I might glance at a science show, the news or something random. Funny thing is, at this point, I can't imagine how I could find the time to regularly watch TV anyway. For me, life is for living rather than vicariously experiencing hyperreality.

Movies have to be mentally challenging to interest me. I am not content to just sit and passively watch.

Music, uh, I have rather conflicting preferences. I like classical, world music and hard, pounding rock, electronica... basically I like anything except country and rap. Oh yea, I like blue grass music, but only the fast kind. Sometimes, I just like silence and drone.

Food, again like music I have rather conflicting preferences, but I recognize and really enjoy foods that are interesting, creatively prepared and healthy. I eat a very healthy diet. Although, I will try anything. Well, as long as it is not greasy and badly prepared.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My kids
2) Health
3) Mindfulness
4) New experiences
5) Exercising
6) The Great Outdoors
7) Tea
8) Clean water
9) Giving thanks
10) Solitude
11) Friends
12) A purpose in life
13) My amazing sense of direction (really is amazing)
14) Pineapples
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- My kids and how to be the best father I can be

- Enjoying life no matter what happens

- Freaky actions at a distance

- Living a full, meaningful life

- Victor Lebow and the possible progress trap he created
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working out at the gym, then sitting on the couch drinking beer, eating prawn cheese spread on chicharones and watching videos.

No, I am not opposed to going out and doing something else. I enjoy both routine, variety and greasy snacks with shrimp flavored cheese.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I put myself through college robbing drug dealers.
You should message me if
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You think that life is more than just an opportunity to get from point A to point B