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46 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:07am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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I want to make pancakes and french toast for my woman on Sunday morning. I am looking to share my life with an amazing woman. I am a hopeless romantic at heart who loves to spoil. I love new adventures and new places. I am an LA native who is committed to always learning/ experiencing new aspects of the city. I am a stable, professional, ethical, grounded guy with a great career. I go to poetry readings, theater, art openings, live music, bonsai class, hiking. I believe in diversity, equality, choice, nature and sharing. love to cook up a brand new recipe. I am easy breezy, loving and always positive and happy. I dream of a generous, considerate, compassionate partnership. I am looking for someone who will make me a better man.

I have an operating principle that I am perfectly willing to believe that I am completely wrong about everything. I am certain of nothing. I love showing up to a place thinking it's going to be one way and having all sorts of preconceptions or prejudices and then being proved wrong. The same thing can be true about my first impressions of people. My intuition can be wrong too. This is why I like to go on multiple dates with someone. If you can get a little smarter about the world every day, that's a win.
What I’m doing with my life
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I support artists and writers and also mentor teens. I volunteer in the bonsai garden at Huntington Gardens. I enjoy giving back to the city I love. I am on board for a non profit medical clinic and also serve on a city commission. I volunteer for CicLAvia. This is huge festival that invites Angelenos to bike the streets.You can find out more here:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
loving, finding amazing things to do in the city, making people laugh. I'm good at solving problems and I'm a great listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile often and am very outgoing and will talk to everyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read Nick Flynn, Raymond Carver, James Ellroy, Joan Didion, Dave Eggers, Neruda, Baudelaire. I love hearing new writers and hearing my friends in the LA literary scene read their work. I go to screenings for the films nominated for Oscars. I love independent and foreign films. I enjoy finding new places to eat. I'm good friends with yelp. I listen to all the amazing new music at KCRW..the xx, Trixie Whitley, Lianne La Havas, Santigold, Sufjan Stevens, Tom Waits, Neko Case, Laura Mvula, Little Dragon, Spoon, Jose James, Paul Weller, Nina Simone, Lucinda Williams, Band of Horses,Bettye Levette, Metric, Ryan Adams, Kendrick Lamar, Steve Earle, Dr. John, Chromeo, Arcade Fire, James Blake and Ozomatli. I see live music at Largo, Hotel Cafe, The Echo and Blue Whale. Its important to me that you love music too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family
my friends
and of course my phone/camera.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things I want to accomplish, living a long full life, how I can give back to the community I love. Finding the love of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a restaurant I have never tried before. Afterwards I may visit galleries, or go to live music and theater. If we spend time together you are guaranteed to see things and go to places you have never heard of before. I go biking on the beach with friends. I also love to go to the Hollywood Bowl.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I write poetry.
You should message me if
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If you like this letter:
"Happy Birthday Princess,
We get old and get used to each other. We think alike. We read each others minds. We know what the other wants without asking. Sometimes we irritate each other a little bit. Maybe sometimes take each other for granted. But once in awhile, like today, I meditate on it and realize how lucky I am to share my life with the greatest woman I ever met. You still fascinate and inspire me. You influence me for the better. You're the object of my desire, the #1 Earthly reason for my existence. I love you very much." Johnny Cash to his bride June Carter Cash on her birthday.
(this is the kind of letter I hope to write to you someday.)