I'm a confident person and enjoy sitting back, relaxing, and having a good time with someone...whether it be going out and chatting over a few drinks, or staying home to watch a movie together. As long as I'm spending time with someone I care about (friend/partner), I'm happy and having a nice time.
I love to workout. For those that it's not a priority in their life, I completely get how you can't fathom how someone could love to intentionally torture themselves. I once thought that, too. Well, I ask you this: Do you enjoy really good sex...where you're working up a sweat? You know that amazing, relaxed, feeling afterwards? That's working out! It's sweat-producing physical activity that creates that incredible endorphin rush feeling in the end! It becomes addicting. Haha! Hey, on the topic...listen to some of the sounds people make at the gym.... Now you are gonna think of me every time you hear a moan or groan ;-)
So, why bring this up? A guy doesn't have to be a gym rat. But, I'm definitely not looking for a couch potato who spends hours in front of the TV or playing video games. He doesn't have to be PlayGirl material (though that would be a perk ;-). What I'm definitely interested in, is a guy who is active and takes pride in himself. Hey, I'm not in model shape, so I don't expect my partner to be.