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40 Philadelphia, PA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:57am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Laughing is my favorite, but not the sans-irony, 2-dimensional kind. I love me some cynicism and strangeness, not that earnestness is without value, certainly. I do love that discomfort when I realize someone is serious when I thought they were kidding, but that is not for these okcupid parts. That is for the waiting room at the doctor's office or the subway platform, but I will be sure to enjoy it for the rest of the day.

Mmm, so what else do I prioritize? Learning is pretty rad and I hope to continue that sparky frame of reference until I lose breath. Creating something beautiful or useful, feeling passion about something, anything, so that it roots you to this earth and renders waking up a joy. Determination is sexy; milktoast be gone!

I want to travel the world ten times over if i am lucky. I like doing things that require wearing sneakers, maybe a little dirty or messy, and off the well-travelled path. I love movies anytime, anyplace: the dark and falling into the dream of it. And books, mostly novels, but I'll take a look at anything.

I like people who are curious and funny and kind.
What I’m doing with my life
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Integrating what I hear, see, intuit, and know; connecting the dots, and trying to be of some help.
I’m really good at
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Listening closely and noticing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am unabashedly friendly, disarming.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Master and Margarita.
Korean. Especially Kalbi. I just drooled a little bit. It happens.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Belly laughing please
Homemade food
Perspective/critical thinking/the dark side
Feeling at home
Wicked smart folks around
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What happens to people between A and B. Turning points, transitions, intersections. What to cook for dinner. History.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with friends or family, cooking and watching a movie or its fancy twin: eating out and and going to a real live movie theater, maybe a play if I'm lucky. Whatever it may be, the company I keep is dear and funny.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am far more snarky and cynical than I appear.
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