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40 Philadelphia, PA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Laughing is my favorite. Second to learning. And eating good food (any kind, all kinds) while talking with someone lovely. I was an actor and then decided to study the brain and why and how we do what we do. So I got my doctorate and am working in Philly. I want to travel the world ten times over if I am lucky. I like doing things that allow me to wear sneakers, like antiquing/flea marketing or walking by the river or the beach or doing something with paper and pens and paints. I love movies anytime, anyplace; the dark and falling into the dream of it. And books, mostly novels, but I'll take a look at anything. I like people who are curious and funny and kind.
What I’m doing with my life
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Integrating what I hear, see, intuit, and know; connecting the dots, and trying to be of some help.
I’m really good at
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Listening closely and noticing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am unabashedly friendly, disarming.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Master and Margarita.
Korean. Especially Kalbi. I just drooled a little bit. It happens.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Belly laughing please
Homemade food
Perspective/critical thinking/the dark side
Feeling at home
Wicked smart folks around
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What happens to people between A and B. Turning points, transitions, intersections. What to cook for dinner. History.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with friends or family, cooking and watching a movie or its fancy twin eating out and seeing a movie, maybe a play if I'm lucky. Whatever it may be, the company I keep is dear and funny.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am far more snarky and cynical than I appear.
You should message me if
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If we can yuk it up, if you are dear, if you follow-through, if you mean what you say, if you are consistent and thoughtful and authentically you. And by that I mean, go for it.