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45 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 28
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Might want kids
My self-summary
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I'm a sweet, sincere, well intended guy. I've worked in tech for the last 20 years and am now building my own startup that has a very strong eco / efficiency promoting purpose.

(I should add that I'm actually living out in the burbs but my spiritual home is in Oakland at the moment and most days I am there for work.)
What I’m doing with my life
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My life is being written and I am amazed by the journey. These past few years have been a period of major growth and some difficulty.

I've spent the last year working on my own company. It is super fun, challenging and lovely depending on the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking things apart and fixing them.
(Not you! Things like your broken clock.)
Asking questions.
Listening and getting to the heart of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I tend to say whatever I am thinking to people and it usually makes them laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I hate these sort of lists but here goes Original Star Trek, Rushmore, Nina Simone, Madmen, and a lot of new alternative music which I feel silly listing. Comedy Central's news hour and also at times the one from PBS. Pretty much any asian food. I'm veg friendly. I am adding Idiocracy as a film I like because I think about it all the time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I know most things we assume we need, we can do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
traffic, the future, my soul, snacks
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making it up as I go.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am addicted to Sriracha sauce
You should message me if
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you feel like it.